http://www.breitbart.com/article.php?id=鈥?/a>Day 79:Biden defends Iran; says Israeli attack would be ill advised.Why do Derms embrace and appease terrorist?
Because they are Chicken-sh*ts.
Don't believe me? Watch how Obama handles the capture of an American flagged freighter (with 21 Americans on board) by Somali pirates.Day 79:Biden defends Iran; says Israeli attack would be ill advised.Why do Derms embrace and appease terrorist?
Biden didn't say anything in ';defense'; of Iran. His comments weren't directed to Iran. AND he is correct...Israel would be ill advised to start a war.
';US Vice President Joe Biden said Tuesday the new Israeli government of Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu would be ';ill-advised'; to attack Iran, but stressed that it was unlikely to do so.
';I don't believe that Prime Minister Netanyahu would do that. I think he would be ill-advised to do that,'; Biden said in an interview with CNN, when asked about possible Israeli strikes on Iranian nuclear sites.
';My level of concern is no different than it was a year ago,'; he added.
Presenting his new government to Israel's parliament a week ago, Netanyahu alluded to an eventual nuclear-armed Iran as the biggest threat to his Jewish state. ';
In reading your link, I don't see him as defending Iran. He simply says he has no more fear of Iran now than last year. Not very descriptive, because we don't know how he felt about Iran last year. Empty talk.
He did say it is not advisable for Israel to blow them up. Probably true. Biden isn't exactly known for insightful, detailed rhetoric, so for him this is about it.
Iran bad. Israel no shoot.
The invasion of Iraq has wiped out the counterbalance to Iran's regional power. It's a statement of reality. Iran is now a major player in the middle east, thanks to Dubya.
Deal with it.
The Dems do not have the will to fight the enemy. They are scare of victory, and they want to rely on the UN to make a simple decision.
DTG
I'm sure Israel is taking their orders from Biden.
(user above me): Iran has been shaking their tail feathers since long before Iraq and our presence in Iraq is strength for us in the ME. Just so you know.
Biden believes in making nice and they will go away.
';O you WANT another war in the Middle East then?';
No, but it is better than the alternative. Iran with nukes.
Biden wasn't part of Reagan's Iran-Contra scandal to appease Iran.
BO promised to end the war. Other leaders embrace him because they know BO is soft on terrorism...
They don't.
This is a classic strawman question.
Why do republicans hate democracy?
O you WANT another war in the Middle East then?
they have to ';America'; is their country,I hope you are not to stupid to understand my answer
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Would you suck up your pride and forgive someone who was terminally ill?
Even if this person was evil to you and this person happened to be your own mother?Would you suck up your pride and forgive someone who was terminally ill?
Yes. Pride can be kind of a bad thing in large doses, and forgiveness is a very good thing even in small doses, especially if it's your own mother.Would you suck up your pride and forgive someone who was terminally ill?
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Yes, forgiveness is for your benefit not hers. Only through forgiving can you put despair behind and proceed to a happier and more fulfilled life. You dont have to forget the hurtfulness or even like or want that person in your life again but you can forgive. And you will become a happier person. Life is either to short or to long for torment and ill-feelings.
Not necessarily. It would depend on whether there was any affection toward her at all. If she had abused me my whole life and there was no love, then screw her.
Nope! The only reason they would be sorry is because they are dying. They should have asked forgiveness when in good health. Better yet, they should have never been evil to begin with!
yes
forgiveness is good for you too, not just them.
Honestly, no. I would go and pay my respects and say good bye and not bring up the situation, but I don't think I could ever forgive someone who was so evil that I lost contact with them all together. Now, if she just punished me for something I did wrong, yes, I would forgive. But if she warped my whole life, no.
If that person was genuinely remorseful (or I knew they would be if capable), yes.
Only if they deserved forgiving.
If not, where's the justice? Would you have forgiven, say, Hitler?
I think I'd be much more likely to think of them as deserving if they were dying though, maybe that's punishment enough.
Yes. Pride can be kind of a bad thing in large doses, and forgiveness is a very good thing even in small doses, especially if it's your own mother.Would you suck up your pride and forgive someone who was terminally ill?
U confused me .....
Yes, forgiveness is for your benefit not hers. Only through forgiving can you put despair behind and proceed to a happier and more fulfilled life. You dont have to forget the hurtfulness or even like or want that person in your life again but you can forgive. And you will become a happier person. Life is either to short or to long for torment and ill-feelings.
Not necessarily. It would depend on whether there was any affection toward her at all. If she had abused me my whole life and there was no love, then screw her.
Nope! The only reason they would be sorry is because they are dying. They should have asked forgiveness when in good health. Better yet, they should have never been evil to begin with!
yes
forgiveness is good for you too, not just them.
Honestly, no. I would go and pay my respects and say good bye and not bring up the situation, but I don't think I could ever forgive someone who was so evil that I lost contact with them all together. Now, if she just punished me for something I did wrong, yes, I would forgive. But if she warped my whole life, no.
If that person was genuinely remorseful (or I knew they would be if capable), yes.
Only if they deserved forgiving.
If not, where's the justice? Would you have forgiven, say, Hitler?
I think I'd be much more likely to think of them as deserving if they were dying though, maybe that's punishment enough.
Does the prospect of ill health in your twilight years worry you? and if you could would you like the choice?
in how you leave this earth.Does the prospect of ill health in your twilight years worry you? and if you could would you like the choice?
No and no.
I do feel that we have a destined time on this earth and can do nothing to change that.
All you can do is to live as healthily as you can without depriving yourself too much and try to be happy. Worry is bad for your health. Give love and you will receive love, do something new as often as possible and when your time comes pray not to be in too much pain. Laugh loads and smile at someone every day xDoes the prospect of ill health in your twilight years worry you? and if you could would you like the choice?
Not worried as much as thinking when one is of sound state of mind
you could sign something legal and binding as to your wishes in regard to the the following
stroke
heart attack
coma, and all the other eventualities
It's all a bit late and sad when you have a firm belief in how you leave this earth and living relatives are left to battle legally your case
It does worry me.My grandma's about 76 this year,and she's going senile,adding to her many physical ailments.She seems to be in physical pain every day and mental distress.I'm very distressed about this because I have a short temper,and I've at times reprimanded her.At times it looks like I really dislike my grandma,but I really really wish my grandma can live to hold her great-grandchild(I'm 17 now,and I'm predicting I'll have a child around 25).
If I could choose how I die,I'd choose to die in my sleep,but I'd like to know that I'm going to die the day before,so I have enough time to tell all my friends and loved ones that I love them.
I do not worry about ill health and to be fair try and stay positive and cheerful all the time , You never know what is around the corner and after all I have been through I consider myself a lucky man. Like someone has said I am happy and smile at people I know all the time it makes you feel good. I have thought about the future but only in as much as sorting out my pension so that my little lad is looked after in the event of anything happening to me.
I don't really worry that much, because I have a full life ahead of me and I'm not going to waste time worrying about the inevitable...
And I would want to go just in my sleep or something...
:/
I wonder how many people clicked this just because the word ';Twilight'; was included
:P
I don't worry so much about ill health as I worry about growing old alone and with no one around me xxxx
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I try not to think that far ahead.
No and no.
I do feel that we have a destined time on this earth and can do nothing to change that.
All you can do is to live as healthily as you can without depriving yourself too much and try to be happy. Worry is bad for your health. Give love and you will receive love, do something new as often as possible and when your time comes pray not to be in too much pain. Laugh loads and smile at someone every day xDoes the prospect of ill health in your twilight years worry you? and if you could would you like the choice?
Not worried as much as thinking when one is of sound state of mind
you could sign something legal and binding as to your wishes in regard to the the following
stroke
heart attack
coma, and all the other eventualities
It's all a bit late and sad when you have a firm belief in how you leave this earth and living relatives are left to battle legally your case
It does worry me.My grandma's about 76 this year,and she's going senile,adding to her many physical ailments.She seems to be in physical pain every day and mental distress.I'm very distressed about this because I have a short temper,and I've at times reprimanded her.At times it looks like I really dislike my grandma,but I really really wish my grandma can live to hold her great-grandchild(I'm 17 now,and I'm predicting I'll have a child around 25).
If I could choose how I die,I'd choose to die in my sleep,but I'd like to know that I'm going to die the day before,so I have enough time to tell all my friends and loved ones that I love them.
I do not worry about ill health and to be fair try and stay positive and cheerful all the time , You never know what is around the corner and after all I have been through I consider myself a lucky man. Like someone has said I am happy and smile at people I know all the time it makes you feel good. I have thought about the future but only in as much as sorting out my pension so that my little lad is looked after in the event of anything happening to me.
I don't really worry that much, because I have a full life ahead of me and I'm not going to waste time worrying about the inevitable...
And I would want to go just in my sleep or something...
:/
I wonder how many people clicked this just because the word ';Twilight'; was included
:P
I don't worry so much about ill health as I worry about growing old alone and with no one around me xxxx
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I try not to think that far ahead.
Would you save a mentally ill woman from dying?
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O.K.Would you save a mentally ill woman from dying?
yes I would. No one should be allowed to pick and choose who to save. Every life has a meaning and purpose. We as humans can't allow ourselves to say who should live and die. We are not gods.
O.K.Would you save a mentally ill woman from dying?
yes I would. No one should be allowed to pick and choose who to save. Every life has a meaning and purpose. We as humans can't allow ourselves to say who should live and die. We are not gods.
If you had no dad and your mom was too mentally ill to walk you down the isle on wedding day, who would?
I wonder who will walk me down the isle on my wedding day...I don't have a dad and my mom has paranoid schizophrenia, so she probably won't attend the wedding. My grandparents have all passed away and I am an only child. Who would be next in line to walk me down the isle? Any creative suggestions? What would you do? and is this something to be embarrassed about?If you had no dad and your mom was too mentally ill to walk you down the isle on wedding day, who would?
Awww...sorry to hear you lack family. But it sounds like you are very independent and have been on our own for a while. You could walk on your own if you have no one you feel close to.
Or your groom and you could walk down the aisle together.
It is nothing to be embarrassed about. It is what it is. But you can make a sad situation into something that makes you look strong and beautiful by walking alone to meet your husband or having your husband walk with you as you go forward together to say your vows.
I think both of those visions are beautiful!
On the other hand if your mom was on meds that made her well enough for one day...that would be awesome too. But I understand that might not be possible. :-(
You can have a beautiful wedding that is meaningful to you and you don`t have to pluck some random guy from an obscure part of your life (an uncle you saw when you were six for example) to do it.
Best wishes!If you had no dad and your mom was too mentally ill to walk you down the isle on wedding day, who would?
Nothing to be embarrassed about. Do you have someone special in your life that you respect and feel close to? An uncle, brother, favorite teacher, sister, cousin, etc.... It could be anyone you have a special closeness with. And if you don't have someone then there is NOTHING wrong with you walking yourself down the isle with your head heald high.
Or even make your own rules and you and your husband to be walk down the isle together!
Congratulations on your up coming wedding. I hope you have a beautiful day!
I'm walking down the asile by myself. I feel like it shows my stubborn independence. My mom and I are best friends and my dad's not a big part of my life and i was debating having my mom or dad walk me or one of my brothers but then it occured to me that I've always been fiercly independent and why should this moment be any different for me?
In this day and age, anything is possible. Best guy friend, best girl friend, brother, nephew, neice, anyone can walk you down the aisle, anyone who is meaningful to you ( =
Don't sweat it!
Good luck
You could have one of your brothers, uncles or other close family member walk you down the aisle. Are you close with an Uncle or an Aunt? It doesn't have to be a male - my mother walked me down the aisle.
Maybe you could ask your fiance's father to walk you down the aisle if you are close with him. I know that my fiance's father would have definitely done it and I would have felt very comfortable with him.
Just choose someone you are close with and makes you feel comfortable. Or, you could walk yourself down the aisle. I've seen a lot of brides do that...
Don't be embarrassed. Choose an aunt or an uncle, close friend, whatever. Hell, my friends entire family was dead and she had her boss walk her down the aisle (she'd worked for him for 10+ years and they were really close). I had another friend who had her 7 year old son walk her down the aisle.
I've also seen a lot of weddings where the bride walks herself. When you meet with the officiate, just have them omit the part about ';who gives this bride.'; Problem solved.
Lots of brides walk themselves down the isle, especially if they have been independent %26amp; on their own for a while.
To me, the idea is to have the person (male in most cases) that you lean on most for support (other than your finace) to symbolically pass that role onto your husband. You shouldn't just have anyone.
I'd walk myself proudly down the isle!
I’d do the same thing that I’ve have gladly done at my own wedding if it wouldn’t have offended my parents – I’d have walked alone. It’s perfectly normal and happens all the time. Since women are no longer “owned” there’s no need to be given away.
No, I wouldn’t be embarrassed. You’ve done nothing wrong. You can’t control the circumstances of your life; you can only make the best of them.
I agree with Jessica. You have NOTHING to be embarrassed or ashamed of!!! I am dealing with the same sort of issue, deciding what to do and how to do it. You should do what you feel is better for you, but you can always just walk by yourself or having someone walk with you that is important, whether it is a family member or friend. For me and my fiance', our friends are our family. I wish you the best of luck and a beautiful wedding day!! :-)
Do you have any aunts or uncles?
Any special family member or even the parent of one of your friends that you are really close to.
My mother in law could not attend our wedding, so we had a ';stand in'; during the candle lighting ceremony. We asked a friend of the family if she would be mom for a day and she said yes.
By no means you should feel guilty or embarrased about this. If there wasnt anyone left to walk me down the isle family wise, I would chose the next closest person that means something to me. In my case it would be my brother in law, but if you have a close family friend, you may want to think about asking them
okay...the way we are doing it is, instead of him waiting on me to walk up to him, we are either walking up the isle together OR we are going to come from opposite sides and meet in the middle. Either one symbolizes something special.
i don't think you should be embarrassed at all. i am having a private ceremony because my parents can't be in the same friggin state...no one else will be invited because my family is too selfish to put their hang ups aside (they'd never let us live it down if someone...anyone...was there and they weren't). therefore, we had to come up with something else. it was frustrating at first, but i've come to find that i am happy with it this way. i am not a 'daddy's girl' anyway and dont' feel that i am an object to be 'given away'. works for me.
hope you come up with something fantastic!
This isn't something to be embarassed about at all - it's your life.
I have 2 parents and 2 step-parents, grandparents (even a great grandparent). I chose to walk myself down the aisle. The way I see it, I am the person giving myself to my intended. I don't belong to anyone else so why should anyone else walk me down and give me away???
There are no ';rules'; about this. It's usually a man -- father if he's available, or any male relative if he isn't. So it could be an uncle or cousin, etc. But if there's really no one in your family who you'd feel comfortable with, it could be anyone who you respect -- a teacher or professor, a favorite neighbor, your boss, a great garage mechanic ... anybody. Well, maybe not the garage mechanic.
Dont be Embarrassed at all. Many women have other people walk them down the Isle all the time. When i Marry again (divorce sucks !) I am going to have my cousin walk me down. Do you have a Uncle , aunt or cousin that your close to ? Ask one of them !
Or walk alone 1/2 way , an maybe have your Groom to be meet you 1/2 way .
who inspires you to be the wonderful, amazing gal you are? who is that person?
embarrassed? you are amazing. if you walked by yourself, or if you were with someone else, how could either be embarrassing, you are incredible.
no matter what you decide, i wish you all the best. congrats.
There is nothing to be embarrassed about. If you have an uncle that you are close to or if there's a good friend of the family that could do it. But, if you can't find anyone you would like to walk with you. Just walk down by yourself, it'll fine and look fine.
I'd walk myself down the aisle.
But, if you'd like to have someone walk you down you can have a brother, sister, aunt, uncle, best friend, or pretty much anyone in your life that you're close with.
And it's nothing to be embarrassed about at all.
aunts? uncles? best friends' parents? this is nothing to be embarrassed about! my aunt was in a similar situation when she got married, and she asked my dad to walk her. he almost cried when she asked! it's an honor to be asked, and no one should be embarrassed about that!
You are who you are, and that's nothing to be embarrassed about.
I walked down the aisle with my fiance/husband. My father is dead and I dont care for the tradition overall. I've heard of the groom meeting the bride halfway down the aisle or the bride walking herself.
If you have any kids you can have them walk you down or it there is any one who is parent figure in you life. But whatever you do dont Be Embarrassed
You can certainly come down the aisle yourself, Don't be embarrassed about any of this -- everyone has a family story!
if you have a close guy friend.. or cousin maybe... or maybe your best friend considering she is pretty much the closest person to you and then she can stand behind you once you walk down the aisle.
If you want someone to walk you. It really is someone who you love and have supported you in your life. a trusted friend, family memeber (uncle, cousin). Hope this helps and good luck and congrats
No dont be embarrassed at all. Do you have anyone that your really close to?? Uncle, good friend, or anyone? If not, then walk yourself down the isle, I don't think that would look strange at all.
That's a tough one. I would say have whoever you were closest with growing up. While you Dad was not there and your Mom was sick, who helped take care of you? An Aunt and Uncle, a family friend?
Ask your fiance if his parents will let you two walk down together. I understand that some parents really want to walk their children down the aisle, but I'm sure they understand your situation.
OMGG NOO DONT BE EMBARASSED,
i dont have a dad either its k. but honestly an uncle, aunt, cousin, a guy friend anyone that you know cares about you and would be honored to do it.
best of luck :)
This is not something to be embarrassed about. You have a few options -
1) Walk alone
2) Walk with your fiance
3) Ask someone you are very close to if they will walk you down the aisle.
do you have a best guy friend? if you do him or just a best girl friend... just anyone you have a close relationship too :) and this is nothing to be embarrassed about and congrats!!!
your brother if you have one, a friend, or just yourself, I really have no Idea, i probably shouldn't be answering this question anyway.
Don't be embarrassed at all.I would ask an uncle.
Awww...sorry to hear you lack family. But it sounds like you are very independent and have been on our own for a while. You could walk on your own if you have no one you feel close to.
Or your groom and you could walk down the aisle together.
It is nothing to be embarrassed about. It is what it is. But you can make a sad situation into something that makes you look strong and beautiful by walking alone to meet your husband or having your husband walk with you as you go forward together to say your vows.
I think both of those visions are beautiful!
On the other hand if your mom was on meds that made her well enough for one day...that would be awesome too. But I understand that might not be possible. :-(
You can have a beautiful wedding that is meaningful to you and you don`t have to pluck some random guy from an obscure part of your life (an uncle you saw when you were six for example) to do it.
Best wishes!If you had no dad and your mom was too mentally ill to walk you down the isle on wedding day, who would?
Nothing to be embarrassed about. Do you have someone special in your life that you respect and feel close to? An uncle, brother, favorite teacher, sister, cousin, etc.... It could be anyone you have a special closeness with. And if you don't have someone then there is NOTHING wrong with you walking yourself down the isle with your head heald high.
Or even make your own rules and you and your husband to be walk down the isle together!
Congratulations on your up coming wedding. I hope you have a beautiful day!
I'm walking down the asile by myself. I feel like it shows my stubborn independence. My mom and I are best friends and my dad's not a big part of my life and i was debating having my mom or dad walk me or one of my brothers but then it occured to me that I've always been fiercly independent and why should this moment be any different for me?
In this day and age, anything is possible. Best guy friend, best girl friend, brother, nephew, neice, anyone can walk you down the aisle, anyone who is meaningful to you ( =
Don't sweat it!
Good luck
You could have one of your brothers, uncles or other close family member walk you down the aisle. Are you close with an Uncle or an Aunt? It doesn't have to be a male - my mother walked me down the aisle.
Maybe you could ask your fiance's father to walk you down the aisle if you are close with him. I know that my fiance's father would have definitely done it and I would have felt very comfortable with him.
Just choose someone you are close with and makes you feel comfortable. Or, you could walk yourself down the aisle. I've seen a lot of brides do that...
Don't be embarrassed. Choose an aunt or an uncle, close friend, whatever. Hell, my friends entire family was dead and she had her boss walk her down the aisle (she'd worked for him for 10+ years and they were really close). I had another friend who had her 7 year old son walk her down the aisle.
I've also seen a lot of weddings where the bride walks herself. When you meet with the officiate, just have them omit the part about ';who gives this bride.'; Problem solved.
Lots of brides walk themselves down the isle, especially if they have been independent %26amp; on their own for a while.
To me, the idea is to have the person (male in most cases) that you lean on most for support (other than your finace) to symbolically pass that role onto your husband. You shouldn't just have anyone.
I'd walk myself proudly down the isle!
I’d do the same thing that I’ve have gladly done at my own wedding if it wouldn’t have offended my parents – I’d have walked alone. It’s perfectly normal and happens all the time. Since women are no longer “owned” there’s no need to be given away.
No, I wouldn’t be embarrassed. You’ve done nothing wrong. You can’t control the circumstances of your life; you can only make the best of them.
I agree with Jessica. You have NOTHING to be embarrassed or ashamed of!!! I am dealing with the same sort of issue, deciding what to do and how to do it. You should do what you feel is better for you, but you can always just walk by yourself or having someone walk with you that is important, whether it is a family member or friend. For me and my fiance', our friends are our family. I wish you the best of luck and a beautiful wedding day!! :-)
Do you have any aunts or uncles?
Any special family member or even the parent of one of your friends that you are really close to.
My mother in law could not attend our wedding, so we had a ';stand in'; during the candle lighting ceremony. We asked a friend of the family if she would be mom for a day and she said yes.
By no means you should feel guilty or embarrased about this. If there wasnt anyone left to walk me down the isle family wise, I would chose the next closest person that means something to me. In my case it would be my brother in law, but if you have a close family friend, you may want to think about asking them
okay...the way we are doing it is, instead of him waiting on me to walk up to him, we are either walking up the isle together OR we are going to come from opposite sides and meet in the middle. Either one symbolizes something special.
i don't think you should be embarrassed at all. i am having a private ceremony because my parents can't be in the same friggin state...no one else will be invited because my family is too selfish to put their hang ups aside (they'd never let us live it down if someone...anyone...was there and they weren't). therefore, we had to come up with something else. it was frustrating at first, but i've come to find that i am happy with it this way. i am not a 'daddy's girl' anyway and dont' feel that i am an object to be 'given away'. works for me.
hope you come up with something fantastic!
This isn't something to be embarassed about at all - it's your life.
I have 2 parents and 2 step-parents, grandparents (even a great grandparent). I chose to walk myself down the aisle. The way I see it, I am the person giving myself to my intended. I don't belong to anyone else so why should anyone else walk me down and give me away???
There are no ';rules'; about this. It's usually a man -- father if he's available, or any male relative if he isn't. So it could be an uncle or cousin, etc. But if there's really no one in your family who you'd feel comfortable with, it could be anyone who you respect -- a teacher or professor, a favorite neighbor, your boss, a great garage mechanic ... anybody. Well, maybe not the garage mechanic.
Dont be Embarrassed at all. Many women have other people walk them down the Isle all the time. When i Marry again (divorce sucks !) I am going to have my cousin walk me down. Do you have a Uncle , aunt or cousin that your close to ? Ask one of them !
Or walk alone 1/2 way , an maybe have your Groom to be meet you 1/2 way .
who inspires you to be the wonderful, amazing gal you are? who is that person?
embarrassed? you are amazing. if you walked by yourself, or if you were with someone else, how could either be embarrassing, you are incredible.
no matter what you decide, i wish you all the best. congrats.
There is nothing to be embarrassed about. If you have an uncle that you are close to or if there's a good friend of the family that could do it. But, if you can't find anyone you would like to walk with you. Just walk down by yourself, it'll fine and look fine.
I'd walk myself down the aisle.
But, if you'd like to have someone walk you down you can have a brother, sister, aunt, uncle, best friend, or pretty much anyone in your life that you're close with.
And it's nothing to be embarrassed about at all.
aunts? uncles? best friends' parents? this is nothing to be embarrassed about! my aunt was in a similar situation when she got married, and she asked my dad to walk her. he almost cried when she asked! it's an honor to be asked, and no one should be embarrassed about that!
You are who you are, and that's nothing to be embarrassed about.
I walked down the aisle with my fiance/husband. My father is dead and I dont care for the tradition overall. I've heard of the groom meeting the bride halfway down the aisle or the bride walking herself.
If you have any kids you can have them walk you down or it there is any one who is parent figure in you life. But whatever you do dont Be Embarrassed
You can certainly come down the aisle yourself, Don't be embarrassed about any of this -- everyone has a family story!
if you have a close guy friend.. or cousin maybe... or maybe your best friend considering she is pretty much the closest person to you and then she can stand behind you once you walk down the aisle.
If you want someone to walk you. It really is someone who you love and have supported you in your life. a trusted friend, family memeber (uncle, cousin). Hope this helps and good luck and congrats
No dont be embarrassed at all. Do you have anyone that your really close to?? Uncle, good friend, or anyone? If not, then walk yourself down the isle, I don't think that would look strange at all.
That's a tough one. I would say have whoever you were closest with growing up. While you Dad was not there and your Mom was sick, who helped take care of you? An Aunt and Uncle, a family friend?
Ask your fiance if his parents will let you two walk down together. I understand that some parents really want to walk their children down the aisle, but I'm sure they understand your situation.
OMGG NOO DONT BE EMBARASSED,
i dont have a dad either its k. but honestly an uncle, aunt, cousin, a guy friend anyone that you know cares about you and would be honored to do it.
best of luck :)
This is not something to be embarrassed about. You have a few options -
1) Walk alone
2) Walk with your fiance
3) Ask someone you are very close to if they will walk you down the aisle.
do you have a best guy friend? if you do him or just a best girl friend... just anyone you have a close relationship too :) and this is nothing to be embarrassed about and congrats!!!
your brother if you have one, a friend, or just yourself, I really have no Idea, i probably shouldn't be answering this question anyway.
Don't be embarrassed at all.I would ask an uncle.
What if McCain got seriously ill? There would be a person who has few years of Alaska experience in charge?
How can the republians now talk about inexperience when McCain has chosen someone who was over nowhere Alaska for a few years? So if McCain gets ill...you got a person who wasover the bears in a city in Alaska with 9,000 people.What if McCain got seriously ill? There would be a person who has few years of Alaska experience in charge?
What if Obama gets elected, then there would be someone in charge with 0 years of executive experience anywhere.What if McCain got seriously ill? There would be a person who has few years of Alaska experience in charge?
Clearly what has happened is that John McCain is secretly on crack.
At first I thought, ';Alaska? ALASKA?? Well, still, she's the governor. She's got executive experience.'; And then I see that she's only been governor two years. Before that, she was mayor of a town of LESS THAN 10, 000!!!
Aside from being merely a ploy to garner the votes of all the disaffected women who wanted Hillary to be the Democratic nominee, this choice is ridiculously irresponsible, in my opinion. She's never had to endure a truly intensive political campaign. What skeletons hide in her closets? We're about to find out! And the man who wants to be the OLDEST sitting president in our nation's history (with a history of cancer, I might add) wants to make this woman next in line to sit in the oval office?
Criminy!!! The woman's been in office in Alaska for two years! What's she going to do when Russia invades their next central European target? How is she prepared to deal with national economic policy when she's only dealt politically with one of the smallest economies of the fifty states? And being pro-life, is she actually going to get ANY of the angry Hillary supporters?
I'm neither Democrat nor Republican, but this vice-presidential choice seems to me to be a blunder that could realistically spell the crash-and-burn end of McCain's run for president.
It's almost as bad as Bush's nomination of Harriet Meyers for the Supreme Court.
You are down to adding ages together to prove experience? How sad.
Palin has more executive experience than Obama. If something happened to McCain they would appoint someone with foreign policy experience to support her.
Just like Biden does for Obama.
Would you rather have experience on the top of your ticket or the bottom?
First Palin has more experience than Obama. Palin has more executive experience than Biden. Humm McCain's inexperienced pick has more experience than the entire Dems ticket.
I would rather take the chance of Pilan becoming president than openly voting for the most inexperienced ticket in the history of the US.
She tried to get the local state trooper fired after he divorced her sister.
It was so that he would be unemployed during the custody battle for his children. The police chief got fired first for telling her no and then the trooper lost his job anyhow.
She is being investigated for abusing her power.
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Those who are touting her time as mayor really don't understand how little mayors in small northern towns actually do.
Palin would be the first woman President! At least she has a clean record, high approval rating, and is honest! She would make a great President as well as Vice-President!
GO McCain/Palin 08!!!!!
As for experience, hers is at least US experience. And she has no terrorist ties.
Ha ha! Well when did experience become a concern for you Obama supporters? Or is this just a game to you?
btw.......if you really DO want to talk about experience, her executive experience is more relevant than anything Obama has done.
no, she has 13 years experience as a mayor prior to that.
So 15 years all together. Nice try though. I mean I guess you're purposely not counting the 13 years as a mayor, but though I would go ahead and call you out on that.
certainly better than a chicago liberal with 143 days on the job, and 130 votes of present, who has been surrounded by the likes of rezko, wright and ayers. talk about an unqaulified sleeze.
ANSWER: She would Run the Country Better than some black guy who has done.... what??? oh yeah absolutly nothing!
1-word: What Do You Call Liars, Cheaters, Criminals, Illegal aliens, Absent Parents %26amp; the Rainbow Coalition, baby killers %26amp; sore losers ?
DEMOCRATS
Remember you are voting for both in November. Truman and Teddy Roosevelt did well, as did Coolidge. Andrew Johnson was too weak and unpopular after Lincoln, while Lyndon had Vietnam. We could have had Agnew or Quayle. Compare them both before voting.
What if Obama gets elected and then we end up with someone whose never ran anything besides his election campaign and has only legislative experience during which he was always geting ready to run for a higher office? Wow, that sure would be scary.
McCain is more than qualified for his position. HOWEVER the potential first ladies are just as qualified for the V.P. spot as McCain's pick! COME ON! I wanted McCain to do well, but he has shot himself in the foot!
Palin has more executive experience in her pinky then Obama has in his whole body. She's a governor. You Obamabots are really slow.
Still has more experience than what obama has got
besides
I think it is time to be looking @ the socialist agenda that Obama
and the democrats want to cram down our throats
I say NO to Obama and his socialist regime
What if Obama doesn't get seriously ill we will be stuck with an inexperienced President who only has 2 years as a U.S. Senator.
obama has just a few years experience at a local and state level, and he's not vp, he's the prez candidate!
Don`t be silly....Our administrations are run by more than one person. They are hand picked committees. Sarah will be in good company.
On the job training is sometimes the best learning experience. ';A woman is like a tea bag, you never know how strong she is until you put her in hot water';
Hahahaha.
Combined age? Seriously? That has nothing to do with experience.
Wasilla has 5,500 residents and the whole state has fewer people than D.C. Oh, yeah, she's got a ton of experience. I find this whole thing funny.
What if Obama gets elected, ';you got'; a person with NO experience......
I want Obama/Biden in the White House so bad if they don't make it i'm going to be so disappointed I have no positive feelings about Mccain and whats theat womans name............
Yeah........Congress the Senate and Supreme Court will let her run wild. Get a clue.
Maybe she will declare war on Betty Crocker.
I would rather have her as President than Obama.
Sort of like Teddy Roosevelt when McKinley died.
u just hate her because shes a girl. sexist moron. What kind of experience does Obama have, what qualifies him to be president
At least she has experience what if you vote for Obama and get some one with NO experience.
No!!!!!!!!!! please don't ask this question....it is a scarring thought and picture to envision. She will be busy breastfeeding, rushing to soccer games, calling Todd's name and PTA meetings. May need a day OFF on DAY ONE and probably start on day two.
go hear and get this song Be vs push the feeling on myspace.com/axelldg
omg that music great HOUSEMUSIC!!!!
they suck thats what they wood say
Palin being investigated for abuse of power is just like some old politicspimple
What if Obama gets elected, then there would be someone in charge with 0 years of executive experience anywhere.What if McCain got seriously ill? There would be a person who has few years of Alaska experience in charge?
Clearly what has happened is that John McCain is secretly on crack.
At first I thought, ';Alaska? ALASKA?? Well, still, she's the governor. She's got executive experience.'; And then I see that she's only been governor two years. Before that, she was mayor of a town of LESS THAN 10, 000!!!
Aside from being merely a ploy to garner the votes of all the disaffected women who wanted Hillary to be the Democratic nominee, this choice is ridiculously irresponsible, in my opinion. She's never had to endure a truly intensive political campaign. What skeletons hide in her closets? We're about to find out! And the man who wants to be the OLDEST sitting president in our nation's history (with a history of cancer, I might add) wants to make this woman next in line to sit in the oval office?
Criminy!!! The woman's been in office in Alaska for two years! What's she going to do when Russia invades their next central European target? How is she prepared to deal with national economic policy when she's only dealt politically with one of the smallest economies of the fifty states? And being pro-life, is she actually going to get ANY of the angry Hillary supporters?
I'm neither Democrat nor Republican, but this vice-presidential choice seems to me to be a blunder that could realistically spell the crash-and-burn end of McCain's run for president.
It's almost as bad as Bush's nomination of Harriet Meyers for the Supreme Court.
You are down to adding ages together to prove experience? How sad.
Palin has more executive experience than Obama. If something happened to McCain they would appoint someone with foreign policy experience to support her.
Just like Biden does for Obama.
Would you rather have experience on the top of your ticket or the bottom?
First Palin has more experience than Obama. Palin has more executive experience than Biden. Humm McCain's inexperienced pick has more experience than the entire Dems ticket.
I would rather take the chance of Pilan becoming president than openly voting for the most inexperienced ticket in the history of the US.
She tried to get the local state trooper fired after he divorced her sister.
It was so that he would be unemployed during the custody battle for his children. The police chief got fired first for telling her no and then the trooper lost his job anyhow.
She is being investigated for abusing her power.
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Those who are touting her time as mayor really don't understand how little mayors in small northern towns actually do.
Palin would be the first woman President! At least she has a clean record, high approval rating, and is honest! She would make a great President as well as Vice-President!
GO McCain/Palin 08!!!!!
As for experience, hers is at least US experience. And she has no terrorist ties.
Ha ha! Well when did experience become a concern for you Obama supporters? Or is this just a game to you?
btw.......if you really DO want to talk about experience, her executive experience is more relevant than anything Obama has done.
no, she has 13 years experience as a mayor prior to that.
So 15 years all together. Nice try though. I mean I guess you're purposely not counting the 13 years as a mayor, but though I would go ahead and call you out on that.
certainly better than a chicago liberal with 143 days on the job, and 130 votes of present, who has been surrounded by the likes of rezko, wright and ayers. talk about an unqaulified sleeze.
ANSWER: She would Run the Country Better than some black guy who has done.... what??? oh yeah absolutly nothing!
1-word: What Do You Call Liars, Cheaters, Criminals, Illegal aliens, Absent Parents %26amp; the Rainbow Coalition, baby killers %26amp; sore losers ?
DEMOCRATS
Remember you are voting for both in November. Truman and Teddy Roosevelt did well, as did Coolidge. Andrew Johnson was too weak and unpopular after Lincoln, while Lyndon had Vietnam. We could have had Agnew or Quayle. Compare them both before voting.
What if Obama gets elected and then we end up with someone whose never ran anything besides his election campaign and has only legislative experience during which he was always geting ready to run for a higher office? Wow, that sure would be scary.
McCain is more than qualified for his position. HOWEVER the potential first ladies are just as qualified for the V.P. spot as McCain's pick! COME ON! I wanted McCain to do well, but he has shot himself in the foot!
Palin has more executive experience in her pinky then Obama has in his whole body. She's a governor. You Obamabots are really slow.
Still has more experience than what obama has got
besides
I think it is time to be looking @ the socialist agenda that Obama
and the democrats want to cram down our throats
I say NO to Obama and his socialist regime
What if Obama doesn't get seriously ill we will be stuck with an inexperienced President who only has 2 years as a U.S. Senator.
obama has just a few years experience at a local and state level, and he's not vp, he's the prez candidate!
Don`t be silly....Our administrations are run by more than one person. They are hand picked committees. Sarah will be in good company.
On the job training is sometimes the best learning experience. ';A woman is like a tea bag, you never know how strong she is until you put her in hot water';
Hahahaha.
Combined age? Seriously? That has nothing to do with experience.
Wasilla has 5,500 residents and the whole state has fewer people than D.C. Oh, yeah, she's got a ton of experience. I find this whole thing funny.
What if Obama gets elected, ';you got'; a person with NO experience......
I want Obama/Biden in the White House so bad if they don't make it i'm going to be so disappointed I have no positive feelings about Mccain and whats theat womans name............
Yeah........Congress the Senate and Supreme Court will let her run wild. Get a clue.
Maybe she will declare war on Betty Crocker.
I would rather have her as President than Obama.
Sort of like Teddy Roosevelt when McKinley died.
u just hate her because shes a girl. sexist moron. What kind of experience does Obama have, what qualifies him to be president
At least she has experience what if you vote for Obama and get some one with NO experience.
No!!!!!!!!!! please don't ask this question....it is a scarring thought and picture to envision. She will be busy breastfeeding, rushing to soccer games, calling Todd's name and PTA meetings. May need a day OFF on DAY ONE and probably start on day two.
go hear and get this song Be vs push the feeling on myspace.com/axelldg
omg that music great HOUSEMUSIC!!!!
they suck thats what they wood say
Palin being investigated for abuse of power is just like some old politics
How much would 50 acres if farming property be worth today in the middle of Ill?
Depends on the exact location, if it is near any roads, things like that.
To get the counties appraisal for the property go to http://alltaxsales.com, click on Illinois, then scroll down to the county, from there you want to click on the link that says ';online search'; under the column parcel search. That is where you type in the property information, and the county will have the assessed value.
Hope this helps!
To get the counties appraisal for the property go to http://alltaxsales.com, click on Illinois, then scroll down to the county, from there you want to click on the link that says ';online search'; under the column parcel search. That is where you type in the property information, and the county will have the assessed value.
Hope this helps!
If your child was terminally ill and wanted to die would you help them?
if they said they were in constant pain, and were going to die soon anyway..If your child was terminally ill and wanted to die would you help them?
why not?If your child was terminally ill and wanted to die would you help them?
I probably wouldn't want to at first, but I would probably give in afterwards
I don't think I could possibly answer that question unless I was actually faced with that situation.
nope
i'd get them high and change their mind
Usually if someone is terminally ill, they can get all the pain medication they need, so they won't be in pain. If I had a child that was dying and there was nothing that could be done, I would just make sure he was as comfortable as possible. I would try to fill his last days with happiness and joy and not let him see my grief.
I don't think I'd have to courage to do it.
How old are you talking about?
I think this hypothetical question is a hard one, because only when a person is faced with such a tragedy, can we really know what we would do.
Theoretically speaking, yes...I would help them if I could. In reality, that's really hard to do. Let's hope nobody reading this is ever faced with that decision.
Yes
This question makes me sad........... I feel for parents in this situation. I'm not one and this affects me. Sorry you're going through this.
why not?If your child was terminally ill and wanted to die would you help them?
I probably wouldn't want to at first, but I would probably give in afterwards
I don't think I could possibly answer that question unless I was actually faced with that situation.
nope
i'd get them high and change their mind
Usually if someone is terminally ill, they can get all the pain medication they need, so they won't be in pain. If I had a child that was dying and there was nothing that could be done, I would just make sure he was as comfortable as possible. I would try to fill his last days with happiness and joy and not let him see my grief.
I don't think I'd have to courage to do it.
How old are you talking about?
I think this hypothetical question is a hard one, because only when a person is faced with such a tragedy, can we really know what we would do.
Theoretically speaking, yes...I would help them if I could. In reality, that's really hard to do. Let's hope nobody reading this is ever faced with that decision.
Yes
This question makes me sad........... I feel for parents in this situation. I'm not one and this affects me. Sorry you're going through this.
Creationists - if you were ill, who would you rather go to. A doctor or a pastor?
Maybe you'd speak to both, but you would certainly see a doctor, since they're the ones with all the information because of their training, right?
So - when you have questions about Big Bang Theory, Evolution, Abiogenesis or anything like that - why do you rely on the uneducated guesswork of people who know as little as you?
Why not ask a damn scientist? This morning alone I have seen people writing things like:
';Either chance or God created us...'; Not true
';There's no evidence for The Big Bang'; Not true
'; The Law of Angular Momentum disproves BB theory'; Not true
How can you possibly have the nerve to demand respect for your ';theories'; and beliefs, when you have not taken the slightest trouble to source information for yourselves?
Just because you don't understand something does not make it untrue. Make the effort to understand by reading books by real biologists and physicists, or remove yourselves from the debate.Creationists - if you were ill, who would you rather go to. A doctor or a pastor?
Answer to your leading question: Go to a doctor, my religion doesn't have ';pastors';.
As for the rest of your questions and statements, who are you to decide who can or cannot debate on this site? Did Y/A die and make you God? Your theories and beliefs have changed so much in the last 60 years a scientist from the '50s wouldn't have a clue today. Just because someone doesn't agree with you they are to slink quietly away and never speak again? Your arrogance is bigger than the Big Bang.
Edit: Your venomous, hate-filled personal attack by email to me is not doing anything but showing your lack of mentality, and you still haven't given anyone any evidence.Creationists - if you were ill, who would you rather go to. A doctor or a pastor?
Evidence for the Big Bang - well, I could recommend some books, but ignorant cuuuuunts like you prefer fairy tales written by cave dwellers and sheep herders, so I won't waste my time. (PS glad to hear you have no ';living children';. Retards need to avoid procreation).
I don't need to go to a pastor to search for healing, I believe God can heal me anytime. But yes, I will still go to the doctor, because there is also God's power through it: science. How about certain natural medicine power in certain seeds, plants? Well I am not blind to deny that, I couldn't.
Quick story...the surgeon says to the patient, ';We're going to put you under now. Don't worry. I'm a trained surgeon, but I'm also an ordained minister. If anything goes wrong, I'll pray like hell for you.';
';And Jesus answering said unto them, They that are whole need not a physician; but they that are sick.';
agapefromnc
i trust neither doctors nor pastors and would sooner have Elohiym heal me or kill from sickness if its time to go - i've lived long enough thanks.
Yeah, it's ridiculous that they fight something they don't understand.
Amen
Who gave the doctor intelligence?
They wouldn't go to the doctor because after all it is just germ theory and we know how they don't believe in theories....unless.... they are a bunch of hypocrites...hmmm
good question , cant wait to see the answers from the believers
So you would rather go to a scientist who tells you big bang is your father, then a Dr to treat your illness?
When it comes to sickness, the doctor and the pastor both have a role to play.
Doctors have not been able to cure all sicknesses, have they? While there are sicknesses that have been cured miraculously by prayer leaving the doctors confounded.
The reason why I don't trust the scientists when it comes to the origins is because the origins (whether of universe or life) do not follow known scientific laws. One always has to step outside the scientific laws in order to explain them. And, mind you, the theories keep changing as there is no way to prove them - you cannot reduplicate the Big Bang nor the abiogenesis or evolution. They belong to the branch that should be called speculative sciences.
Moreover, the evolutionists promote their theory like a religion as if our denying it would stop further evolutions. Strange indeed!
We get out answers from scientist like nasa science daily etc.. These web sites offer articles on these subject from experts who are scientist. If i was sick i would go to the doctor if i needed to talk to someone i would go to a psychologist in fact that's really all a priest is. These aren't theories we believe in these basic common sense in a pbs special becoming human scientist look for ancient human bones and constantly find hippo remains lion deer etc.. the are in a desert that was lush forest millions of years ago not 6000. We have discovered and new key in evolution it was always my conclusion but we have been many primate like species but have always walked upright. Its almost psychotic do believe in creationism.
Many of the Doctors, nurses, health-care practitioners,surgeons lawyers, mechanics, clerks, law enforcement personnel attend the same church that we attend.
And if I asked any of them a question regarding ';the big bang theory'; they would by and large answer the same....';so what, who cares, what does that have to do with day to day life';...
All of this ranting and raving of ';we are smarter and more intelligent because we believe in the big bang and can prove it babble'; is really nothing more than an intellectual temper tantrum that the rest of the world does not give two hoots about .
Yes, we have read it, understand it , and are very knowledgeable of the whole thing; and it is from that perspective that we dismiss the whole annoying rant and get on with life.
So - when you have questions about Big Bang Theory, Evolution, Abiogenesis or anything like that - why do you rely on the uneducated guesswork of people who know as little as you?
Why not ask a damn scientist? This morning alone I have seen people writing things like:
';Either chance or God created us...'; Not true
';There's no evidence for The Big Bang'; Not true
'; The Law of Angular Momentum disproves BB theory'; Not true
How can you possibly have the nerve to demand respect for your ';theories'; and beliefs, when you have not taken the slightest trouble to source information for yourselves?
Just because you don't understand something does not make it untrue. Make the effort to understand by reading books by real biologists and physicists, or remove yourselves from the debate.Creationists - if you were ill, who would you rather go to. A doctor or a pastor?
Answer to your leading question: Go to a doctor, my religion doesn't have ';pastors';.
As for the rest of your questions and statements, who are you to decide who can or cannot debate on this site? Did Y/A die and make you God? Your theories and beliefs have changed so much in the last 60 years a scientist from the '50s wouldn't have a clue today. Just because someone doesn't agree with you they are to slink quietly away and never speak again? Your arrogance is bigger than the Big Bang.
Edit: Your venomous, hate-filled personal attack by email to me is not doing anything but showing your lack of mentality, and you still haven't given anyone any evidence.Creationists - if you were ill, who would you rather go to. A doctor or a pastor?
Evidence for the Big Bang - well, I could recommend some books, but ignorant cuuuuunts like you prefer fairy tales written by cave dwellers and sheep herders, so I won't waste my time. (PS glad to hear you have no ';living children';. Retards need to avoid procreation).
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I don't need to go to a pastor to search for healing, I believe God can heal me anytime. But yes, I will still go to the doctor, because there is also God's power through it: science. How about certain natural medicine power in certain seeds, plants? Well I am not blind to deny that, I couldn't.
Quick story...the surgeon says to the patient, ';We're going to put you under now. Don't worry. I'm a trained surgeon, but I'm also an ordained minister. If anything goes wrong, I'll pray like hell for you.';
';And Jesus answering said unto them, They that are whole need not a physician; but they that are sick.';
agapefromnc
i trust neither doctors nor pastors and would sooner have Elohiym heal me or kill from sickness if its time to go - i've lived long enough thanks.
Yeah, it's ridiculous that they fight something they don't understand.
Amen
Who gave the doctor intelligence?
They wouldn't go to the doctor because after all it is just germ theory and we know how they don't believe in theories....unless.... they are a bunch of hypocrites...hmmm
good question , cant wait to see the answers from the believers
So you would rather go to a scientist who tells you big bang is your father, then a Dr to treat your illness?
When it comes to sickness, the doctor and the pastor both have a role to play.
Doctors have not been able to cure all sicknesses, have they? While there are sicknesses that have been cured miraculously by prayer leaving the doctors confounded.
The reason why I don't trust the scientists when it comes to the origins is because the origins (whether of universe or life) do not follow known scientific laws. One always has to step outside the scientific laws in order to explain them. And, mind you, the theories keep changing as there is no way to prove them - you cannot reduplicate the Big Bang nor the abiogenesis or evolution. They belong to the branch that should be called speculative sciences.
Moreover, the evolutionists promote their theory like a religion as if our denying it would stop further evolutions. Strange indeed!
We get out answers from scientist like nasa science daily etc.. These web sites offer articles on these subject from experts who are scientist. If i was sick i would go to the doctor if i needed to talk to someone i would go to a psychologist in fact that's really all a priest is. These aren't theories we believe in these basic common sense in a pbs special becoming human scientist look for ancient human bones and constantly find hippo remains lion deer etc.. the are in a desert that was lush forest millions of years ago not 6000. We have discovered and new key in evolution it was always my conclusion but we have been many primate like species but have always walked upright. Its almost psychotic do believe in creationism.
Many of the Doctors, nurses, health-care practitioners,surgeons lawyers, mechanics, clerks, law enforcement personnel attend the same church that we attend.
And if I asked any of them a question regarding ';the big bang theory'; they would by and large answer the same....';so what, who cares, what does that have to do with day to day life';...
All of this ranting and raving of ';we are smarter and more intelligent because we believe in the big bang and can prove it babble'; is really nothing more than an intellectual temper tantrum that the rest of the world does not give two hoots about .
Yes, we have read it, understand it , and are very knowledgeable of the whole thing; and it is from that perspective that we dismiss the whole annoying rant and get on with life.
What would be proper to say when visiting terminally ill patient?
just treat them the way you always do..there is no standard thing to say. say hi hello and pretend nothing is wrong..(without being inconsiderate) sometimes all a ill patient need is a normal treatment.What would be proper to say when visiting terminally ill patient?
I used to do hospice work and always found just showing up with a kind heart and a sincere smile would mean a whole lot to someone who knew they were dying. Just stopping by, if they're up to a visit, and letting them know you're thinking of them warms their heart. In return, it will warm your heart, too. It's a beatiful win/win situation. Blessings to you.What would be proper to say when visiting terminally ill patient?
Good for you, visiting a terminally ill patient instead of letting your discomfort keep you away--that's the biggest hurdle right there. They'll understand that you're uncomfortable, so don't sweat boo-boo's like ';Get well soon.'; But saying ';I hope you feel more comfortable'; is perfectly okay. Talk about movies, TV shows, family, weather, etc. If they're in the hospital, you might bring them some magazines and chat about the current events. Just you being there, even if not much gets said, will mean a lot.
If they were in the hospital for their appendix, what would you say, would you ask about it? When my Dad was dying he was grateful when I came to see him he said people would come stand in the corner and watch him die he hated it, be you, if you are uncomfortable then say that ask them what to do, believe me they will appreciate the honest approach, wouldn't you
If I were dying I would want to know that the rest of the world would miss me and they will keep on going with their own happy lives when I am gone. I would make my last visit in this way.
Whatever you would normally say. There's no need to bring up the illness. Talk to this person the way you would talk to them if you didn't know they were terminally ill. (I'm sure that will be difficult.)
How are you doing today or just let them talk.
I have found it's always better to talk about family or current events.
Hope this helps.
Don't skirt around the issue of their dying. Terminally ill people often WANT to talk about it because they need to work through their fears and concerns...but they often don't bring it up out of fear of upsetting their visitors.
On the other hand, don't be morbid and push the issue either. Reminisce about the good times and mutual friends.
Ask if there is anything you can do for them...and mean it. Make specific suggestions if you can...like writing their obituary, finding contact information on an old friend the patient might want to speak to before it is too late, committing to helping a family member after he/she dies, etc.
be yourself. and be considerate of thier suffering. I am a bit strange cuz I am a person who believes in God and an eternal future beyond deaths door. So, being me, people that know me would expect me to ask them about their future eternity. but not abruptly or being rude about it. just asking them.
But offering your love with hugs, less words and more listening, and sometimes, just being there. even if you silently sit on the couch beside the hospital bed while they sleep. being there to show you are caring , supporting, and listening.
and if they dont feel like visiting cuz they feel so yucky, well, never be offended. show love , care, compassion and understanding by excussing yourself.
leave your contact information with the nurses or family members so they can call upon you for anything they may need help with. being available is more than words can say.
listening more than you speak, can speak volumes.
hope this helps...........
as little as possible. I heard a preacher chastise a dying young woma for no meeting her church tithes. I threw him out.
Hello is a good start, and then let them speak. Sometimes saying nothing is the best approach. Should a conversation be what they want listen carefully to them and respond to what they say. Let them be the one in control of the conversation. There is so little they may have control of it probably is a welcome event to be able to say what they want to say. Even if what they want to say amounts to ';I am mad, angry, feeling sorry for myself, want to believe a cure will be found in time.'; Just be the best listening ear you can.
Plan on keeping the visit short, in order for the person to be able to rest, and let them keep you longer if that is what they want.
Under no circumstance should you talk about your aunt viv, or the ulcerated disk your dealing with, or anything which would overshadow the difficult path they are having to walk. Just be there and for those few moments you are there with them, walk that path with them.
I used to do hospice work and always found just showing up with a kind heart and a sincere smile would mean a whole lot to someone who knew they were dying. Just stopping by, if they're up to a visit, and letting them know you're thinking of them warms their heart. In return, it will warm your heart, too. It's a beatiful win/win situation. Blessings to you.What would be proper to say when visiting terminally ill patient?
Good for you, visiting a terminally ill patient instead of letting your discomfort keep you away--that's the biggest hurdle right there. They'll understand that you're uncomfortable, so don't sweat boo-boo's like ';Get well soon.'; But saying ';I hope you feel more comfortable'; is perfectly okay. Talk about movies, TV shows, family, weather, etc. If they're in the hospital, you might bring them some magazines and chat about the current events. Just you being there, even if not much gets said, will mean a lot.
If they were in the hospital for their appendix, what would you say, would you ask about it? When my Dad was dying he was grateful when I came to see him he said people would come stand in the corner and watch him die he hated it, be you, if you are uncomfortable then say that ask them what to do, believe me they will appreciate the honest approach, wouldn't you
If I were dying I would want to know that the rest of the world would miss me and they will keep on going with their own happy lives when I am gone. I would make my last visit in this way.
Whatever you would normally say. There's no need to bring up the illness. Talk to this person the way you would talk to them if you didn't know they were terminally ill. (I'm sure that will be difficult.)
How are you doing today or just let them talk.
I have found it's always better to talk about family or current events.
Hope this helps.
Don't skirt around the issue of their dying. Terminally ill people often WANT to talk about it because they need to work through their fears and concerns...but they often don't bring it up out of fear of upsetting their visitors.
On the other hand, don't be morbid and push the issue either. Reminisce about the good times and mutual friends.
Ask if there is anything you can do for them...and mean it. Make specific suggestions if you can...like writing their obituary, finding contact information on an old friend the patient might want to speak to before it is too late, committing to helping a family member after he/she dies, etc.
be yourself. and be considerate of thier suffering. I am a bit strange cuz I am a person who believes in God and an eternal future beyond deaths door. So, being me, people that know me would expect me to ask them about their future eternity. but not abruptly or being rude about it. just asking them.
But offering your love with hugs, less words and more listening, and sometimes, just being there. even if you silently sit on the couch beside the hospital bed while they sleep. being there to show you are caring , supporting, and listening.
and if they dont feel like visiting cuz they feel so yucky, well, never be offended. show love , care, compassion and understanding by excussing yourself.
leave your contact information with the nurses or family members so they can call upon you for anything they may need help with. being available is more than words can say.
listening more than you speak, can speak volumes.
hope this helps...........
as little as possible. I heard a preacher chastise a dying young woma for no meeting her church tithes. I threw him out.
Hello is a good start, and then let them speak. Sometimes saying nothing is the best approach. Should a conversation be what they want listen carefully to them and respond to what they say. Let them be the one in control of the conversation. There is so little they may have control of it probably is a welcome event to be able to say what they want to say. Even if what they want to say amounts to ';I am mad, angry, feeling sorry for myself, want to believe a cure will be found in time.'; Just be the best listening ear you can.
Plan on keeping the visit short, in order for the person to be able to rest, and let them keep you longer if that is what they want.
Under no circumstance should you talk about your aunt viv, or the ulcerated disk your dealing with, or anything which would overshadow the difficult path they are having to walk. Just be there and for those few moments you are there with them, walk that path with them.
I am ill and would like to find some old friends before its too late...?
I joined Classmates, got re-aquainted to a few of my old friends and some have already come to see me in AZ, but there is some special ones I still would like to see. I also have tried ';people search'; to no avail, of course it has been 38 years. I am looking for a family that used to live by us about 40 years ago. The mother was Lois Hawkins, the daughters, I went to school with was Rebecca and Carolyn Hawkins. I was told that Becky married and had the last name Byrd, Carolyn married a guy with last name of ';Reedy'; (I was told she had two daughters Vanessa and Michelle). We are from Oregon. I have Cancer and a heart condition where I will be undergoing open heart surgery in Sept. So am trying re-connect with those that was special to me.
I have a myspace page to contact me:
My URL: myspace.com/sherrygomezI am ill and would like to find some old friends before its too late...?
goggle all the names you can
god bless you
do you have any friends you can confide inI am ill and would like to find some old friends before its too late...?
LOOK ON FACEBOOK YA NEVER KNOW..
I have a myspace page to contact me:
My URL: myspace.com/sherrygomezI am ill and would like to find some old friends before its too late...?
goggle all the names you can
god bless you
do you have any friends you can confide inI am ill and would like to find some old friends before its too late...?
LOOK ON FACEBOOK YA NEVER KNOW..
I am not ill, but would like to meet a NASCAR driver and become friends with him. How would I go about it?
I am a big Nascar fan and I want to meet many drivers. My favorite is Dale Earnhart Jr. I also like Mike Waltrip and Kasey Kane. I would also like to become friends with DW. I only want to be friends with the above men. My 7 year old daughter wants to meet all of the above also. Please let me know how to contact them and hopefully get to become friends with them. I want to be able to get emails from them and not just some spokesmen writting on their behalf. I know they are busy, but I want to contact them personally and not just as some fan I really want to become friends and want to write to them and receive pictures and letters from them personally.I am not ill, but would like to meet a NASCAR driver and become friends with him. How would I go about it?
Dale Earnhardt Jr
Michael Waltrip
Kasey Kahne
I can see you are a big fan. I live in the same town as 2 of the 3 (and the other one merely lives across the lake) and I have never met them. Seen, yes (Michael a few times), met, no.
They MAKE themselves hard to find. And for a reason.I am not ill, but would like to meet a NASCAR driver and become friends with him. How would I go about it?
(Kasey Kahne commercial).... You must be ';dreaming (dreaminggg). Become a super model, get to be a winner's circle girl, become a billionaire golf pro, buy a superspeedway, or become a NASCAR big wig official in the NASCAR trailer...otherwise you are pretty much screwed.
You actually might want to seek therapy. Why would they want to be your friend? Don't you think they have enough of those, at this point in their lives/careers?
As a a fan, you deserve an autographed picture or similar gesture. Expecting anything else is stalking.
my sugestion to you is write your favorite driver!!!!! maybe he will listen but highly dought it..... or if you go to a signing session try to make small talk other than racing and see how far you go.
Never happen honey. You and about 10 million people have the same dream. They watch out for people like you. Forget it, it could get you in trouble.
All I can suggest is going to the team web sights or drivers pages and see if they have signing sessions or fan related events\?
It will never happen. Unless somehow you never wake up from the dreamland you are in.
Do what I did-join a fan club of theirs. I joined Johnny Benson's fan club, got to meet him a few times.
Join their Fan Clubs ..u then can get signed autographs and pics..but as for a personal relationship....can u reach and walk on the MOON????
Stalking is a crime.
Hang out at their house and stalk them
Hey I don't know but if you find out let me know cause I love Jr too!! good luck
Wow u should get checkedpimple
Dale Earnhardt Jr
Michael Waltrip
Kasey Kahne
I can see you are a big fan. I live in the same town as 2 of the 3 (and the other one merely lives across the lake) and I have never met them. Seen, yes (Michael a few times), met, no.
They MAKE themselves hard to find. And for a reason.I am not ill, but would like to meet a NASCAR driver and become friends with him. How would I go about it?
(Kasey Kahne commercial).... You must be ';dreaming (dreaminggg). Become a super model, get to be a winner's circle girl, become a billionaire golf pro, buy a superspeedway, or become a NASCAR big wig official in the NASCAR trailer...otherwise you are pretty much screwed.
You actually might want to seek therapy. Why would they want to be your friend? Don't you think they have enough of those, at this point in their lives/careers?
As a a fan, you deserve an autographed picture or similar gesture. Expecting anything else is stalking.
my sugestion to you is write your favorite driver!!!!! maybe he will listen but highly dought it..... or if you go to a signing session try to make small talk other than racing and see how far you go.
Never happen honey. You and about 10 million people have the same dream. They watch out for people like you. Forget it, it could get you in trouble.
All I can suggest is going to the team web sights or drivers pages and see if they have signing sessions or fan related events\?
It will never happen. Unless somehow you never wake up from the dreamland you are in.
Do what I did-join a fan club of theirs. I joined Johnny Benson's fan club, got to meet him a few times.
Join their Fan Clubs ..u then can get signed autographs and pics..but as for a personal relationship....can u reach and walk on the MOON????
Stalking is a crime.
Hang out at their house and stalk them
Hey I don't know but if you find out let me know cause I love Jr too!! good luck
Wow u should get checked
I was told that there is a drug that would make you ill every time you smoked or had nicotine.?
A while ago my friend was telling me about a drug I could take to make me vomit every time I smoked. Does anyone know its name?
Ive tried patches, Ive tried ';Step'; programs, I cant stand the gum. I think this is the only thing that will work!I was told that there is a drug that would make you ill every time you smoked or had nicotine.?
Chantix, Champix in Europe. It's the most effective stop smoking med, though not everyone can tolerate it.I was told that there is a drug that would make you ill every time you smoked or had nicotine.?
It's called Chantrix, I don't know if it will make you vomit but it might make you have nausea
Ive tried patches, Ive tried ';Step'; programs, I cant stand the gum. I think this is the only thing that will work!I was told that there is a drug that would make you ill every time you smoked or had nicotine.?
Chantix, Champix in Europe. It's the most effective stop smoking med, though not everyone can tolerate it.I was told that there is a drug that would make you ill every time you smoked or had nicotine.?
It's called Chantrix, I don't know if it will make you vomit but it might make you have nausea
Complete this scenario with what you would do. And Ill tell the best one what happens then. And what I'd do.
You are a sniper in a new world war, there is nobody around for miles and you have only one bullet in your chamber. Your mission is to safe gaurd a leader of the world power, his death would lose your nation the war.
While viewing through the scope you see the man your safe gaurding wearing full body armor with only his head exposed while in the prossess of raping a little girl!
What do you do? Anything is acceptable.Complete this scenario with what you would do. And Ill tell the best one what happens then. And what I'd do.
This is an interesting question. I think I would have to shoot him. A person who does something like that deserves to die. Certainly shouldn't be in a postion of power. I would have to think to the future. Is this what he would be doing while pretending to run our nation? I would defiantly have to question my loyalties and my government, after that.Complete this scenario with what you would do. And Ill tell the best one what happens then. And what I'd do.
Why would you shoot the girl? Although she will not be the same again, she is innocent. I liked tooshortheather's decision more.
Where did this girl come from? Why is the leader alone? What good is one bullet for saving a nation? Shoot the bastard in the head and figure these things out later while looking for more ammo...and realigning my political loyalties.
I wouldnt know what to do if it was in real life and I dont think anyone would. But just imagining I would take his armour off him and beat him and let the girl go.
Shoot him of course. A man like that doesnt deserve to live, much less to be protected. Besides if a man like that were protected then what does that say about the people hes representing?
While viewing through the scope you see the man your safe gaurding wearing full body armor with only his head exposed while in the prossess of raping a little girl!
What do you do? Anything is acceptable.Complete this scenario with what you would do. And Ill tell the best one what happens then. And what I'd do.
This is an interesting question. I think I would have to shoot him. A person who does something like that deserves to die. Certainly shouldn't be in a postion of power. I would have to think to the future. Is this what he would be doing while pretending to run our nation? I would defiantly have to question my loyalties and my government, after that.Complete this scenario with what you would do. And Ill tell the best one what happens then. And what I'd do.
Why would you shoot the girl? Although she will not be the same again, she is innocent. I liked tooshortheather's decision more.
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Where did this girl come from? Why is the leader alone? What good is one bullet for saving a nation? Shoot the bastard in the head and figure these things out later while looking for more ammo...and realigning my political loyalties.
I wouldnt know what to do if it was in real life and I dont think anyone would. But just imagining I would take his armour off him and beat him and let the girl go.
Shoot him of course. A man like that doesnt deserve to live, much less to be protected. Besides if a man like that were protected then what does that say about the people hes representing?
If you got told you were terminally ill and was going to die, would you tell your children and family?
if you didnt have long left would you tell them or would you live your last weeks as if you wernt going to die, you could just upset everyone and wouldnt like to spend the rest of your life with your children grieving?If you got told you were terminally ill and was going to die, would you tell your children and family?
I would tell them... my mom had a tumor in her breast and she didn't tell us... she waited until they told her they were going to go in and remove it.... I wish she would have told us... I think its better to tell because it gives family time to understand what is going on... the shock will be bad enough but when the time comes the beforehand knowledge will help ease the pain...If you got told you were terminally ill and was going to die, would you tell your children and family?
Yes, I would. They would have a right to know and could help me put things in order.
My husband wouldn't let me or his brother tell his mother that
he had terminal brain cancer and only had 6 months to live.
however within 2 months he got worse, his brother got his
mother to the hospital just in time, she had a right to know.
although he was unconsious, she said her last goodbyes
to him. after all she brought him into the world, it was
fitting she should see him before he departed.
i would tell my wife so she could prepaire her self but not my daughter
i wouldn't tell them but really spend the last moments enjoying doing things with the children.
I think that is a hard decision to make when there is children involved, if it was just you and your family i think that it would be more manageable.
if it was me i would tell the children but in a sensitive way because it is better for them to know then them waking up and you are gone.
by letting then know it is going to be easier for then to except your abscence.
Good question...I'm torn between a desire to be honest, and a desire to be honourable.
Having never been in that situation I can't call on any past experience, but I see no reason not to tell those closest to me.
If I was one of the family members I'd want to be told. Far better to have chance to say goodbye. Otherwise I'd always know they had kept something important from me, which would make grieving harder.
I would not tell them.
I would definately tell them, so that they have time to prepare, to say goodbye... and then definately just go and have fun, maybe take a trip, go somewhere... the other way it would be too much of a shock, and it would be much harder for them to deal with later.
I`d tell them so they could be prepared when it happens and are expecting it,although i know it`d still hurt them.
Absolutely...my mom did. She was told in October that her cancer was terminal, she passed away in March. We made the most of it. And she did not have to bear the burden of knowledge alone, we all shared it. Was it still hard...yes. Did we laugh, love and cry....yes.
Hi Leesa,
I am not sure if you are asking this hypothetically or not but if it's something you are going through there is places you can get advice on the topic...even doctors can help with this decison.
Hypothetically though if I had a terminal illness I would tell my family, yes. I don't have children but I would tell them too. In some ways I think continuing with life normally for months, not telling anyone and then dying quite suddenly or in a very short space of time, would nearly have a worse effect on their grief...because they wouldn't have time to prepare. I think If i could be the one to decide how I want arrangements to be b4 and after, I would be much happier, than dying and not having my last wishes met.
I know telling children would be very hard and any family member but if you could be strong enough to do so, i think it's actually the best option. it doesn't mean you can't keep living life as usual really..of course people will be more sensitive to you but sometimes that a good thing. I think keeping it to myself would kill me quicker really.
sometimes knowing how much time you have left can be a blessing.
If this is a topic you are interested in, there is a good movie called Stepmom..featuring julia roberts and susan surandon..which is about this...its atear jerker though so have the tissues ready.
Best of luck x
In a heartbeat, honesty is the best policy.
yes i think you should tell all consearned and be able to come to terms with the proplem or your family are going to think you dont want them around and then every body is going to think why did they not tell us sooner
I would tell them and have a hugeeeeee party.
Its much better for them to know, gives them a chance to say goodbye and all those things you have been meaning to say but never got round to..........
My god mother was dieing of cancer and she told us. However I think sometimes she wish she hadn't told everyone because ppl start walking on egg shells, worring and even doubting that you could be healed. So consider some ppl may not act the same after hearing that type of news you never know follow your heart. :) 2 give the person you asking this about some hope the day my God mother was suppose to die from this she went to the hospital cause they didn't understand her well being so they did surgery and found that it was actually not cancer a surgery she had previously had was the cause. Who ever her doctor was left something in her stomach that made her that sick and now shes healing and getting married soon.
yes of course its their right to know
if you were terminally ill you wouldnt need to tell your family in the last few weeks as they would be able to see how ill you were.,but it would be better to talk to them to soften the blow.i was relieved when my father and grandfather died because they suffered so much and death was a release from their living hell
i wouldn't tell anyone cuz i dont wanna be hooked up to nothing, it would be my time and it's gonna happen sooner/later
Id tell them as i would not want it to be too much of a shock !!, plus i could tell them where i wanted to be buried and what Happy music i wanted at my funeral, and who i didn't want to attend ? :-)
r u dieing?! i'm srry! i will pray 4 u! promis! but ........i would tell your husband and when your gone your husband will tell your kids what happend and that u did not tell then because u wanted to make the best out of the rest of your life and u did not want to make them sad! they will understand!
i wish u the best...really! get well soon!
Tell them. Then they'd all have chance to say the things they want to say to you.
I wouldn`t tell them until I had to...in fact I wouldn`t want to know either. Even if I suspected it..
It would depend on how long I had left.
If you watch someone dying but don't know they are you have false hope. It took my dad 7 weeks to die and we weren't told he was dying until the week before he died, we had to go to hospital management to find out.
He had told them he did not want us to know till near the end but he was never himself again and couldn't let us know.He let us know he wanted to die though.
That was horrible.
Hope that comes close to what your after..
I don't have a husband/partner/boyfriend, nor do I have children. The closest relatives I have are my sister, brother and their families.
We have a rocky relationship at times because I want to be a recluse and they don't want me to be, they want to see more of me and they want me to actually visit them without being fetched, coerced, threatened etc (not gonna happen!)
If I was told I had a terminal disease and only had a few months to live, the only person I would tell would be my boss and I would sear her to secrecy. She makes a big thing about the confidentiality clause in our contracts, I would remind her about that.
The only reason I would tell her is because I'm a carer and look after some very precious and vulnerable people. One of my ladies is heading towards her 101st birthday. If it was likely that I may be a danger to these people through contamination or muscle weakness, I would leave and she would need to know why.
No-one else would get to know because I wouldn't want people fawning over me. I jealously guard my privacy; no-one gets in my home without my advance notice. I can imagine that both my siblings would want me to move in with them so that I wouldn't be alone ... when the end came and that would be unacceptable. I live alone and I want to die alone without all the wailing that often comes with someone's passing.
I'm not heartless, I was brought up to see death as the natural conclusion to life. It's going to happen, get used to it, the sooner you do the easier it will be when it happens as a result, when my parents died, my ex sister in law accused me of not caring about them because I wasn't bereft. I cared that little about them, I fought all the authorities to look after them myself at home.
As for my siblings and their families, they seem to hold me in high affection and so I'm sure they'll be very sad for a while but then life goes on, doesn't it? After a few months, I'll be relegated to that memory box that brings a few tears when it surfaces ... Maybe when little sisters are mentioned, the other two will think of me or when doting aunts are mentioned their children will but I'm under no illusions that I am not the most important person in anyone's life. No-one's life is going to stop and be irreversibly changed when I go.
I would probaly tell them but give them the wrong time so they know its comming but not when. I would also try and spend as much time with them as I can
Allowing your children, and family, to come to terms with an imminent death would be the kindest way of letting them start their grieving process.
Maybe, let them know the person was ill slowly. Just giving them a little information at a time, so that they can deal with it in small stages.
Personally, I would want everyone to remember me fondly, and as a happy person. And to achieve that, when being aware that one is terminally ill, requires their support, and their understanding of what that person is going through.
Knowing that I did all I could to ease their worry and grieving, would be a comfort to me also.
i'd have to my husband would need instruction on how to work the washing machine, iron, lawn mower, microwave, dvd player and how to wipe his a**
well, they'll get to know about it eventually
Of course because you do not want any regrets and you owe it to your family to let them say there goodbyes
I would tell them... my mom had a tumor in her breast and she didn't tell us... she waited until they told her they were going to go in and remove it.... I wish she would have told us... I think its better to tell because it gives family time to understand what is going on... the shock will be bad enough but when the time comes the beforehand knowledge will help ease the pain...If you got told you were terminally ill and was going to die, would you tell your children and family?
Yes, I would. They would have a right to know and could help me put things in order.
My husband wouldn't let me or his brother tell his mother that
he had terminal brain cancer and only had 6 months to live.
however within 2 months he got worse, his brother got his
mother to the hospital just in time, she had a right to know.
although he was unconsious, she said her last goodbyes
to him. after all she brought him into the world, it was
fitting she should see him before he departed.
i would tell my wife so she could prepaire her self but not my daughter
i wouldn't tell them but really spend the last moments enjoying doing things with the children.
I think that is a hard decision to make when there is children involved, if it was just you and your family i think that it would be more manageable.
if it was me i would tell the children but in a sensitive way because it is better for them to know then them waking up and you are gone.
by letting then know it is going to be easier for then to except your abscence.
Good question...I'm torn between a desire to be honest, and a desire to be honourable.
Having never been in that situation I can't call on any past experience, but I see no reason not to tell those closest to me.
If I was one of the family members I'd want to be told. Far better to have chance to say goodbye. Otherwise I'd always know they had kept something important from me, which would make grieving harder.
I would not tell them.
I would definately tell them, so that they have time to prepare, to say goodbye... and then definately just go and have fun, maybe take a trip, go somewhere... the other way it would be too much of a shock, and it would be much harder for them to deal with later.
I`d tell them so they could be prepared when it happens and are expecting it,although i know it`d still hurt them.
Absolutely...my mom did. She was told in October that her cancer was terminal, she passed away in March. We made the most of it. And she did not have to bear the burden of knowledge alone, we all shared it. Was it still hard...yes. Did we laugh, love and cry....yes.
Hi Leesa,
I am not sure if you are asking this hypothetically or not but if it's something you are going through there is places you can get advice on the topic...even doctors can help with this decison.
Hypothetically though if I had a terminal illness I would tell my family, yes. I don't have children but I would tell them too. In some ways I think continuing with life normally for months, not telling anyone and then dying quite suddenly or in a very short space of time, would nearly have a worse effect on their grief...because they wouldn't have time to prepare. I think If i could be the one to decide how I want arrangements to be b4 and after, I would be much happier, than dying and not having my last wishes met.
I know telling children would be very hard and any family member but if you could be strong enough to do so, i think it's actually the best option. it doesn't mean you can't keep living life as usual really..of course people will be more sensitive to you but sometimes that a good thing. I think keeping it to myself would kill me quicker really.
sometimes knowing how much time you have left can be a blessing.
If this is a topic you are interested in, there is a good movie called Stepmom..featuring julia roberts and susan surandon..which is about this...its atear jerker though so have the tissues ready.
Best of luck x
In a heartbeat, honesty is the best policy.
yes i think you should tell all consearned and be able to come to terms with the proplem or your family are going to think you dont want them around and then every body is going to think why did they not tell us sooner
I would tell them and have a hugeeeeee party.
Its much better for them to know, gives them a chance to say goodbye and all those things you have been meaning to say but never got round to..........
My god mother was dieing of cancer and she told us. However I think sometimes she wish she hadn't told everyone because ppl start walking on egg shells, worring and even doubting that you could be healed. So consider some ppl may not act the same after hearing that type of news you never know follow your heart. :) 2 give the person you asking this about some hope the day my God mother was suppose to die from this she went to the hospital cause they didn't understand her well being so they did surgery and found that it was actually not cancer a surgery she had previously had was the cause. Who ever her doctor was left something in her stomach that made her that sick and now shes healing and getting married soon.
yes of course its their right to know
if you were terminally ill you wouldnt need to tell your family in the last few weeks as they would be able to see how ill you were.,but it would be better to talk to them to soften the blow.i was relieved when my father and grandfather died because they suffered so much and death was a release from their living hell
i wouldn't tell anyone cuz i dont wanna be hooked up to nothing, it would be my time and it's gonna happen sooner/later
Id tell them as i would not want it to be too much of a shock !!, plus i could tell them where i wanted to be buried and what Happy music i wanted at my funeral, and who i didn't want to attend ? :-)
r u dieing?! i'm srry! i will pray 4 u! promis! but ........i would tell your husband and when your gone your husband will tell your kids what happend and that u did not tell then because u wanted to make the best out of the rest of your life and u did not want to make them sad! they will understand!
i wish u the best...really! get well soon!
Tell them. Then they'd all have chance to say the things they want to say to you.
I wouldn`t tell them until I had to...in fact I wouldn`t want to know either. Even if I suspected it..
It would depend on how long I had left.
If you watch someone dying but don't know they are you have false hope. It took my dad 7 weeks to die and we weren't told he was dying until the week before he died, we had to go to hospital management to find out.
He had told them he did not want us to know till near the end but he was never himself again and couldn't let us know.He let us know he wanted to die though.
That was horrible.
Hope that comes close to what your after..
I don't have a husband/partner/boyfriend, nor do I have children. The closest relatives I have are my sister, brother and their families.
We have a rocky relationship at times because I want to be a recluse and they don't want me to be, they want to see more of me and they want me to actually visit them without being fetched, coerced, threatened etc (not gonna happen!)
If I was told I had a terminal disease and only had a few months to live, the only person I would tell would be my boss and I would sear her to secrecy. She makes a big thing about the confidentiality clause in our contracts, I would remind her about that.
The only reason I would tell her is because I'm a carer and look after some very precious and vulnerable people. One of my ladies is heading towards her 101st birthday. If it was likely that I may be a danger to these people through contamination or muscle weakness, I would leave and she would need to know why.
No-one else would get to know because I wouldn't want people fawning over me. I jealously guard my privacy; no-one gets in my home without my advance notice. I can imagine that both my siblings would want me to move in with them so that I wouldn't be alone ... when the end came and that would be unacceptable. I live alone and I want to die alone without all the wailing that often comes with someone's passing.
I'm not heartless, I was brought up to see death as the natural conclusion to life. It's going to happen, get used to it, the sooner you do the easier it will be when it happens as a result, when my parents died, my ex sister in law accused me of not caring about them because I wasn't bereft. I cared that little about them, I fought all the authorities to look after them myself at home.
As for my siblings and their families, they seem to hold me in high affection and so I'm sure they'll be very sad for a while but then life goes on, doesn't it? After a few months, I'll be relegated to that memory box that brings a few tears when it surfaces ... Maybe when little sisters are mentioned, the other two will think of me or when doting aunts are mentioned their children will but I'm under no illusions that I am not the most important person in anyone's life. No-one's life is going to stop and be irreversibly changed when I go.
I would probaly tell them but give them the wrong time so they know its comming but not when. I would also try and spend as much time with them as I can
Allowing your children, and family, to come to terms with an imminent death would be the kindest way of letting them start their grieving process.
Maybe, let them know the person was ill slowly. Just giving them a little information at a time, so that they can deal with it in small stages.
Personally, I would want everyone to remember me fondly, and as a happy person. And to achieve that, when being aware that one is terminally ill, requires their support, and their understanding of what that person is going through.
Knowing that I did all I could to ease their worry and grieving, would be a comfort to me also.
i'd have to my husband would need instruction on how to work the washing machine, iron, lawn mower, microwave, dvd player and how to wipe his a**
well, they'll get to know about it eventually
Of course because you do not want any regrets and you owe it to your family to let them say there goodbyes
Would everyone send strong loving prayer out to my girlfriend jennifer who is very ill and in the hospital?
pleaseWould everyone send strong loving prayer out to my girlfriend jennifer who is very ill and in the hospital?
Absolutely!Would everyone send strong loving prayer out to my girlfriend jennifer who is very ill and in the hospital?
Just did. God bless.
Your in my prayers :)
Oh my goodness of course!!
I hope she gets better son
Sure, I'll talk to my pastor about setting up a prayer chain.
Absolutely!Would everyone send strong loving prayer out to my girlfriend jennifer who is very ill and in the hospital?
Just did. God bless.
Your in my prayers :)
Oh my goodness of course!!
I hope she gets better son
Sure, I'll talk to my pastor about setting up a prayer chain.
Would Dr. Manmohan Singh get a second turn because of his ill health?
i want to know.Would Dr. Manmohan Singh get a second turn because of his ill health?
many people in the parliament want manmohan singh as prime minister but his second bypass surgery has created a doubt. it is a wait and watch game.Would Dr. Manmohan Singh get a second turn because of his ill health?
Manmohan singh is a prime minister just because of sonia and she want to keep him in power till rahul is prepared to take charge. The day rahul is ready she wil tell manmhan to vacate irrespective of health.
yes he will get second turn. India has to give him for India's development.
Whole world is in economic meltdown but not India that is because of his policies.
If his party wins a majority or gets to form a coalition government in
alliance with other political parties then he may get a second term as the PM.
His health cannot be related to his carrer, as a person he is a very strong person (leave the party aside) I feel he is good, yes he will get the second term.
How do you Sikhs manage to all have the last name Singh? Do you make sure no two of you have the same first name?
He is a very honest,wise %26amp; gental person but due to his age and health - its not possible .............
He is weak-hearted P.M and we need strong P.M for India so no Mr. Sinhg this time ....................
HIS ILL HEALTH IS NOT A GRANTED CHANCE TO GET A SECOND TURN.
God only knows but he is capable of managing that if it is given .
it is a silly question ...politics has no relation with health
many people in the parliament want manmohan singh as prime minister but his second bypass surgery has created a doubt. it is a wait and watch game.Would Dr. Manmohan Singh get a second turn because of his ill health?
Manmohan singh is a prime minister just because of sonia and she want to keep him in power till rahul is prepared to take charge. The day rahul is ready she wil tell manmhan to vacate irrespective of health.
yes he will get second turn. India has to give him for India's development.
Whole world is in economic meltdown but not India that is because of his policies.
If his party wins a majority or gets to form a coalition government in
alliance with other political parties then he may get a second term as the PM.
His health cannot be related to his carrer, as a person he is a very strong person (leave the party aside) I feel he is good, yes he will get the second term.
How do you Sikhs manage to all have the last name Singh? Do you make sure no two of you have the same first name?
He is a very honest,wise %26amp; gental person but due to his age and health - its not possible .............
He is weak-hearted P.M and we need strong P.M for India so no Mr. Sinhg this time ....................
HIS ILL HEALTH IS NOT A GRANTED CHANCE TO GET A SECOND TURN.
God only knows but he is capable of managing that if it is given .
it is a silly question ...politics has no relation with health
Would eating only takeaway food make you ill?
I watched the show ';upsize me'; and thought that if he didnt over do the eating and ate a variety of takeaway and ordered only what he could eat instead of upsizing all the time, would he have gotten ill? What do you think?Would eating only takeaway food make you ill?
There is a lot of caleries in most of your take out food, and to lose weight you need to cut portions and also one thing that made me loose was stopped drinking sodas and started drinking water.Would eating only takeaway food make you ill?
In ';Supersize Me';, the man ate fast food 3 times a day and no more. In 30 days, his body was going to hell in a hand basket.
';Supersize Me,'; the movie was made for you. ;-)
Aloha
It wont make you fat or ill if you eat different kinds of food and control how much and what you eat. Whats with the ';takeaway'; and ';upsize me'; you fron downunder, are you ?. Please shows are shows and they are made for people to watch and mostly stupid people, i mean the same ones who cry when they watch soap operas and think that that is real life............(ps I sure hope you are not one of them soap watching lessies)
i dont think so i think he just woulda goten fat
I think it would still have had the same results...that is really nasty food to be eating day in and day out. You'd have to be really careful with what you ordered at fast food places. They are kinda sneaky about where they stuff in all the ';bad for you stuff.';pimple
There is a lot of caleries in most of your take out food, and to lose weight you need to cut portions and also one thing that made me loose was stopped drinking sodas and started drinking water.Would eating only takeaway food make you ill?
In ';Supersize Me';, the man ate fast food 3 times a day and no more. In 30 days, his body was going to hell in a hand basket.
';Supersize Me,'; the movie was made for you. ;-)
Aloha
It wont make you fat or ill if you eat different kinds of food and control how much and what you eat. Whats with the ';takeaway'; and ';upsize me'; you fron downunder, are you ?. Please shows are shows and they are made for people to watch and mostly stupid people, i mean the same ones who cry when they watch soap operas and think that that is real life............(ps I sure hope you are not one of them soap watching lessies)
i dont think so i think he just woulda goten fat
I think it would still have had the same results...that is really nasty food to be eating day in and day out. You'd have to be really careful with what you ordered at fast food places. They are kinda sneaky about where they stuff in all the ';bad for you stuff.';
Recently I had a family emergency, an ill parent, and I notified my boyfriend thinking he would be there?
but he wasnt emotionally there for me...should I approach him about this or is this just a guy thing?Recently I had a family emergency, an ill parent, and I notified my boyfriend thinking he would be there?
It's not a 'guy' thing, it's a 'human' thing.
Love and support don't have sex-based boundries
It's not a 'guy' thing, it's a 'human' thing.
Love and support don't have sex-based boundries
Terminally ill, what would you do?
Mom has stage 4 melanoma.What would you say to or ask of someone who is terminally ill?Terminally ill, what would you do?
My dad also has stage 4 melanoma and is terminally ill, too. Right now, he's in hospice care at our house. The best thing you can do is hold the person's hand and spend as much time with them as possible. We used to play little games together and read together, but now he's too sick to do that.
Do anything that would make the person feel at home. Do not act condescending (obviously) when the person asks you for a drink of water or something else.
I am very sorry about your mom, and I sincerely hope you and your loved ones will make it through this tough time.
My dad also has stage 4 melanoma and is terminally ill, too. Right now, he's in hospice care at our house. The best thing you can do is hold the person's hand and spend as much time with them as possible. We used to play little games together and read together, but now he's too sick to do that.
Do anything that would make the person feel at home. Do not act condescending (obviously) when the person asks you for a drink of water or something else.
I am very sorry about your mom, and I sincerely hope you and your loved ones will make it through this tough time.
I made this coment to a girl i like , ill bet it would be like heaven to make love to you?
whats wrong with what i said , because shes not talking to me any more , i think it made her not trust me , what can i do to make her trust meI made this coment to a girl i like , ill bet it would be like heaven to make love to you?
She probably thinks you only want sex. If you do, don't tell her that.I made this coment to a girl i like , ill bet it would be like heaven to make love to you?
i think you scared the phuck out of her
%26amp; now thinks you are just creepy.
its corny
You went a bit too far, talk to him normally to see if you can gain her trust again, because it might have freaked her out.
Good Luck ;xox
smoooth -.- (dont use)
It sounds like the only thing you are after is sex. Use less sexual contents next time buddy, maybe that will appeal to her more.
It made you sound like a jerk.
That's disgusting, that's what's wrong with it. Women don't want to hear about how much you want to bone them, I don't care how nice you try and put it. It is down right inappropriate. Women want to be courted by a gentleman. Not stalked by some Ron Jeremy wannabe. You messed up with that one man. Live and learn.
That was brilliant.
She must be a Ra-Tard.
Just move on to better things with game like that.
First ask her what is wrong? I don't see how that comment would not make her trust you.Maybe she is shy.
EVERY guy wants SEX, do you know how old that gets? Girls want you to like them for THEM, not because you want to screw her! Get a brain idiot!
unclear, girls are complicated
i saw ashow last nigt on PBS , some daniel guy seemed to have some clues
if he is right in what he says, its really true, girls are very strange
Now you better tell her you'd like to get to know her. I see the compliment but us females like to think men like us for our minds as well as our bodies. Lay off the physical comments for a bit.
When you get around to asking her for a date, be sure it is a place where you can talk. You know, sometimes someone opens their mouth and all physical attraction just fades. . .and sometimes it so increases. . .and it goes both ways.
Well, basically what you're saying is:
';I think you would be a great f*ck.';
Maybe that helps you understand her reaction some more?
although you may think that's a compliment..but to her she may feel differently* about it.
if you're youngish age, she may think thats the only thing on your mind*..sex........
you perhaps painted a different picture in her eyes of who you really are
try talkin to her and appologize for making that comment to her, but she may not care what you have to say ...........sometimes putting ur foot in ur mouth....comes with a price
Hahaha well to start with, that was a little forward. It takes mucho tiempo (lots of time) to be able to say something like that, depending on the girl of course.
Apologize first for saying the wrong thing. I'd actually try and make that a better, deeper comment than a blunt one. You could say you were thinking of her body and how you wanted to make her feel good. Ultimately, it'll be up to her for how this turns out.
i don't know what it meant to you but to most people it would mean ';i will feel amazingly good if i could have sex with you';..
do you know the girl very well to have those words ready to tell her?
you should have a sense of timing and when to say what and gain trust from people before going deep down under in the private world. if you go around doing what you did, you will be left alone on your own island.
if you really want to gain her back as a person 1st and then as a friend, you will have to show your patience, loyalty and be gentle and be nice.
good luck.
live life, learn, move on %26amp; explore yourself.
don't talk about religion, or sex until they mention it first.
It's just a bit weird for you to say that... It's literally like I want to have sex with you. It's a little disturbing, and it makes you kinda sound like a stalker. What you need to do is go back and apologize, and just tell her you didn't mean it that way, and how you feel for her (If you love her :) Smile and be friendly! If she still looked at you like a freak, just leave it, it's just a waste of time - she doesn't like you. Sorry to be harsh, it's the only way! Good luck and hope I helped! x
Because that comment means you think about her only for sex. ';Making love,'; in case you didn't know, means to have sex. Girls don't like guys who only think about sex. Girls like guys that like them for them and not there body. And while a girl wants to hear that she's beautiful, she doesn't want to hear that you want to have sex with her. I found a girl recently who I like for her personality and not her smile and recently when I protected her from a crazy girl who tried to hurt her, I told her I was sorry and when she said ';It's okay'; I responded, ';No. It's not okay. I don't like seeing nice girls get hurt. Especially, when they're as pretty as you. If there's anything I can do to make this up to you, let me know.'; See how I complimented her personality and her body? Notice how I put personality first? That's what girls want to hear.
She probably thinks you only want sex. If you do, don't tell her that.I made this coment to a girl i like , ill bet it would be like heaven to make love to you?
i think you scared the phuck out of her
%26amp; now thinks you are just creepy.
its corny
You went a bit too far, talk to him normally to see if you can gain her trust again, because it might have freaked her out.
Good Luck ;xox
smoooth -.- (dont use)
It sounds like the only thing you are after is sex. Use less sexual contents next time buddy, maybe that will appeal to her more.
It made you sound like a jerk.
That's disgusting, that's what's wrong with it. Women don't want to hear about how much you want to bone them, I don't care how nice you try and put it. It is down right inappropriate. Women want to be courted by a gentleman. Not stalked by some Ron Jeremy wannabe. You messed up with that one man. Live and learn.
That was brilliant.
She must be a Ra-Tard.
Just move on to better things with game like that.
First ask her what is wrong? I don't see how that comment would not make her trust you.Maybe she is shy.
EVERY guy wants SEX, do you know how old that gets? Girls want you to like them for THEM, not because you want to screw her! Get a brain idiot!
unclear, girls are complicated
i saw ashow last nigt on PBS , some daniel guy seemed to have some clues
if he is right in what he says, its really true, girls are very strange
Now you better tell her you'd like to get to know her. I see the compliment but us females like to think men like us for our minds as well as our bodies. Lay off the physical comments for a bit.
When you get around to asking her for a date, be sure it is a place where you can talk. You know, sometimes someone opens their mouth and all physical attraction just fades. . .and sometimes it so increases. . .and it goes both ways.
Well, basically what you're saying is:
';I think you would be a great f*ck.';
Maybe that helps you understand her reaction some more?
although you may think that's a compliment..but to her she may feel differently* about it.
if you're youngish age, she may think thats the only thing on your mind*..sex........
you perhaps painted a different picture in her eyes of who you really are
try talkin to her and appologize for making that comment to her, but she may not care what you have to say ...........sometimes putting ur foot in ur mouth....comes with a price
Hahaha well to start with, that was a little forward. It takes mucho tiempo (lots of time) to be able to say something like that, depending on the girl of course.
Apologize first for saying the wrong thing. I'd actually try and make that a better, deeper comment than a blunt one. You could say you were thinking of her body and how you wanted to make her feel good. Ultimately, it'll be up to her for how this turns out.
i don't know what it meant to you but to most people it would mean ';i will feel amazingly good if i could have sex with you';..
do you know the girl very well to have those words ready to tell her?
you should have a sense of timing and when to say what and gain trust from people before going deep down under in the private world. if you go around doing what you did, you will be left alone on your own island.
if you really want to gain her back as a person 1st and then as a friend, you will have to show your patience, loyalty and be gentle and be nice.
good luck.
live life, learn, move on %26amp; explore yourself.
don't talk about religion, or sex until they mention it first.
It's just a bit weird for you to say that... It's literally like I want to have sex with you. It's a little disturbing, and it makes you kinda sound like a stalker. What you need to do is go back and apologize, and just tell her you didn't mean it that way, and how you feel for her (If you love her :) Smile and be friendly! If she still looked at you like a freak, just leave it, it's just a waste of time - she doesn't like you. Sorry to be harsh, it's the only way! Good luck and hope I helped! x
Because that comment means you think about her only for sex. ';Making love,'; in case you didn't know, means to have sex. Girls don't like guys who only think about sex. Girls like guys that like them for them and not there body. And while a girl wants to hear that she's beautiful, she doesn't want to hear that you want to have sex with her. I found a girl recently who I like for her personality and not her smile and recently when I protected her from a crazy girl who tried to hurt her, I told her I was sorry and when she said ';It's okay'; I responded, ';No. It's not okay. I don't like seeing nice girls get hurt. Especially, when they're as pretty as you. If there's anything I can do to make this up to you, let me know.'; See how I complimented her personality and her body? Notice how I put personality first? That's what girls want to hear.
Feeling ill during a GCSE exam - what would happen?
If you had finished all the questions but you started to feel ill
what would happen?
would your paper still be sent off to be marked?Feeling ill during a GCSE exam - what would happen?
You would be taken to a room with a member of staff, and would have to wait with supervision until the exam had ended. Your paper would be sent off as normal.Feeling ill during a GCSE exam - what would happen?
Look in the real world.
Decode this lyrics '; Lost in love';
Guilty conscience?
For having short-change one self in not reviewing the lessons and home-work before sitting for the exam in time.
In vomiting out all the ghostly stories for the folks back home?
Luke 21.30-36
Luke 6.39-40,41-45,46-49
Luke 9.25,55-56,60
Matt 22.17-21,32
What do you think?
If the paper is completed then it will most defiantly be marked =]
Yes. If you have completed the exam, though you're feeling ill, it'll get marked as normal.
Urm, yeah.
what would happen?
would your paper still be sent off to be marked?Feeling ill during a GCSE exam - what would happen?
You would be taken to a room with a member of staff, and would have to wait with supervision until the exam had ended. Your paper would be sent off as normal.Feeling ill during a GCSE exam - what would happen?
Look in the real world.
Decode this lyrics '; Lost in love';
Guilty conscience?
For having short-change one self in not reviewing the lessons and home-work before sitting for the exam in time.
In vomiting out all the ghostly stories for the folks back home?
Luke 21.30-36
Luke 6.39-40,41-45,46-49
Luke 9.25,55-56,60
Matt 22.17-21,32
What do you think?
If the paper is completed then it will most defiantly be marked =]
Yes. If you have completed the exam, though you're feeling ill, it'll get marked as normal.
Urm, yeah.
Terminally ill, what would you do?
Mom has stage 4 melanoma.What would you say to or ask of someone who is terminally ill?Terminally ill, what would you do?
My dad also has stage 4 melanoma and is terminally ill, too. Right now, he's in hospice care at our house. The best thing you can do is hold the person's hand and spend as much time with them as possible. We used to play little games together and read together, but now he's too sick to do that.
Do anything that would make the person feel at home. Do not act condescending (obviously) when the person asks you for a drink of water or something else.
I am very sorry about your mom, and I sincerely hope you and your loved ones will make it through this tough time.pimple
My dad also has stage 4 melanoma and is terminally ill, too. Right now, he's in hospice care at our house. The best thing you can do is hold the person's hand and spend as much time with them as possible. We used to play little games together and read together, but now he's too sick to do that.
Do anything that would make the person feel at home. Do not act condescending (obviously) when the person asks you for a drink of water or something else.
I am very sorry about your mom, and I sincerely hope you and your loved ones will make it through this tough time.
If you made someone from Chicago mad, would they be ill-annoyed?
an old joke of mine. I'll pick best answer for the funniest punch-line. No profanity.If you made someone from Chicago mad, would they be ill-annoyed?
ahahahahahhahaha
your a regular jerry seinfeld
it you make that joke in chicago i will make it my personal mission to track you down, tie you up, put a red shirt on you and drop you off in west englewood
just kidding, thats goodIf you made someone from Chicago mad, would they be ill-annoyed?
H.O.T, you need to grow up little girl. It's a joke. Stupid kids.
That was a funny joke. I'm not good with punchlines though.
SHUT UP DUMMY! I USED 2 LIVE IN CHICAGO! SHUT YOUR MOUTH STUPID! NEVER TALK ABOUT CHICAGO BADLY! FREAAAKKK
No, they would be ill-annoyeds. Can't forget the s.
No, because they are very ';Chi'; in their thinking !!!
ahahahahahhahaha
your a regular jerry seinfeld
it you make that joke in chicago i will make it my personal mission to track you down, tie you up, put a red shirt on you and drop you off in west englewood
just kidding, thats goodIf you made someone from Chicago mad, would they be ill-annoyed?
H.O.T, you need to grow up little girl. It's a joke. Stupid kids.
That was a funny joke. I'm not good with punchlines though.
SHUT UP DUMMY! I USED 2 LIVE IN CHICAGO! SHUT YOUR MOUTH STUPID! NEVER TALK ABOUT CHICAGO BADLY! FREAAAKKK
No, they would be ill-annoyeds. Can't forget the s.
No, because they are very ';Chi'; in their thinking !!!
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If you were born ';mentally ill'; would you still be held accountable for your sins?
Unfortunately some people are born crazy, they truely have no ';moral compass'; or understanding of right or wrong.
Let's assume this person has commited murder (or whatever other sins you would like) and has been hospitalized. If the person because of their illness can not comprehend the concept of repenting or even who or what jesus is, would they still be held accountable for their sins and sent to hell?
Would god not have created the sickness in the person to begin with?If you were born ';mentally ill'; would you still be held accountable for your sins?
Non-religious
Being mentally ill no justification for crime.
EDIT: There are some people who commit crimes and happen to be mentally ill, but their criminal behavior is not caused by psychotic or delusional states. It has not been proven that people with mental illness commit a crime necessarily because of their illness.If you were born ';mentally ill'; would you still be held accountable for your sins?
God hates crazy people apparently.
some claim there is a bio imperitive and genetic disposition to the criminal mind and environment comes second maybe we should be looking for a cure like in clockwork orange .
holding people accountable doesn't stop the criminal only makes sense to those who are honest to begin with . justice without vengence makes sense to me .
Since the God of many major religions is obviously mentally ill himself, perhaps that would make it easier to have empathy for mentally ill people and give them a pardon.
My understanding is that mental illness is a form of rebellion. People born in that state refuse to face the consequences of their behavior in previous life. Human law excuses them, but they will never escape the law of karma and reincarnation.
Each of us is born into an infinite variety of circumstances. Some have good parents, some bad. Some grow up in oppressive nations, some in relatively free ones. Some are born mentally ill, and others at least seem normal (I'm convinced everyone is at least somewhat mentally ill).
We aren't 100% responsible for anything, but to the extent we are, justice will have its due.
That is the wonderful thing about the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Through our faith in Him, we can be free of the effects of sin through repentance and forgiving others. That way we can experience the growth that comes through our earth life and still return to our Heavenly Father.
the Bible infers that you must have been exposed to the Holy Spirit to be held accountable, at least that is the general interpretation by most real religious scholars I have known.
So if a person were so mentally impaired that they could not make rational decisions or even understand the issue, my GUESS is that these conditions are going to be taken into consideration. I'm not God, I can't speak for Him, neither can any of us.
No, because sins are imaginary rules.
For someone who has used this defense for most of his life. I hope that I shall never have to be held accountable for nearly even half of my sins. If so, I'm pretty much in the same boat as Satan, Judas and the guy who invented the new Coke recipe.
I am an atheist, but if I were religious I can't imagine worshipping any god who would send this person to hell. Sara have you ever had any contact with someone who is seriously sick? My daughter was in treatment for years and while not that sick, some of the people we came across while getting her treatment were. Some had no idea what year it was, or who they were. Some are there on voluntarity treatment, they can leave if they wanted to.
Unless you are mentally ill, why do you care? And if you are mentally ill, then you are smart enough to bring up this issue, so you are accountable.
From a lot of these answers, I get the impression that the Biblical god is a heartless jerk.
Yes..... What would make you think otherwise?
Since God, hell and satan et al are all hypothetical this sort of ridiculous situation does not arise - (thank god).
';Would god not have created the sickness in the person to begin with?';
that is actually the answer to your question. some people are actually born to be sent to hell. God made them to remind others of sinning and bad stuff. in the same way He does it, He also makes crazy humans to show what either sin or innocence is.
Correction: No one is born mentally ill. There are those who are born with a predisposition toward a mental illness, but no one is born mentally ill
Completely, it doesn't matter how in or out of touch with reality that you are, you're still a sinner, and you're still going to Hell.
Let's assume this person has commited murder (or whatever other sins you would like) and has been hospitalized. If the person because of their illness can not comprehend the concept of repenting or even who or what jesus is, would they still be held accountable for their sins and sent to hell?
Would god not have created the sickness in the person to begin with?If you were born ';mentally ill'; would you still be held accountable for your sins?
Non-religious
Being mentally ill no justification for crime.
EDIT: There are some people who commit crimes and happen to be mentally ill, but their criminal behavior is not caused by psychotic or delusional states. It has not been proven that people with mental illness commit a crime necessarily because of their illness.If you were born ';mentally ill'; would you still be held accountable for your sins?
God hates crazy people apparently.
some claim there is a bio imperitive and genetic disposition to the criminal mind and environment comes second maybe we should be looking for a cure like in clockwork orange .
holding people accountable doesn't stop the criminal only makes sense to those who are honest to begin with . justice without vengence makes sense to me .
Since the God of many major religions is obviously mentally ill himself, perhaps that would make it easier to have empathy for mentally ill people and give them a pardon.
My understanding is that mental illness is a form of rebellion. People born in that state refuse to face the consequences of their behavior in previous life. Human law excuses them, but they will never escape the law of karma and reincarnation.
Each of us is born into an infinite variety of circumstances. Some have good parents, some bad. Some grow up in oppressive nations, some in relatively free ones. Some are born mentally ill, and others at least seem normal (I'm convinced everyone is at least somewhat mentally ill).
We aren't 100% responsible for anything, but to the extent we are, justice will have its due.
That is the wonderful thing about the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Through our faith in Him, we can be free of the effects of sin through repentance and forgiving others. That way we can experience the growth that comes through our earth life and still return to our Heavenly Father.
the Bible infers that you must have been exposed to the Holy Spirit to be held accountable, at least that is the general interpretation by most real religious scholars I have known.
So if a person were so mentally impaired that they could not make rational decisions or even understand the issue, my GUESS is that these conditions are going to be taken into consideration. I'm not God, I can't speak for Him, neither can any of us.
No, because sins are imaginary rules.
For someone who has used this defense for most of his life. I hope that I shall never have to be held accountable for nearly even half of my sins. If so, I'm pretty much in the same boat as Satan, Judas and the guy who invented the new Coke recipe.
I am an atheist, but if I were religious I can't imagine worshipping any god who would send this person to hell. Sara have you ever had any contact with someone who is seriously sick? My daughter was in treatment for years and while not that sick, some of the people we came across while getting her treatment were. Some had no idea what year it was, or who they were. Some are there on voluntarity treatment, they can leave if they wanted to.
Unless you are mentally ill, why do you care? And if you are mentally ill, then you are smart enough to bring up this issue, so you are accountable.
From a lot of these answers, I get the impression that the Biblical god is a heartless jerk.
Yes..... What would make you think otherwise?
Since God, hell and satan et al are all hypothetical this sort of ridiculous situation does not arise - (thank god).
';Would god not have created the sickness in the person to begin with?';
that is actually the answer to your question. some people are actually born to be sent to hell. God made them to remind others of sinning and bad stuff. in the same way He does it, He also makes crazy humans to show what either sin or innocence is.
Correction: No one is born mentally ill. There are those who are born with a predisposition toward a mental illness, but no one is born mentally ill
Completely, it doesn't matter how in or out of touch with reality that you are, you're still a sinner, and you're still going to Hell.
OK. Now.. How many of you ill-informed nut cases still believe that Michael Jackson became white on his will?
His Majesty, the King Of Pop, suffers from a disease called Vitiligo, which removes the pigmentation of his skin and turns it white.. for more info see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vitiligo
The disease runs through the Jackson family see here for a pic of LaToya Jackson whose skin isn't much different form His Majesty's. http://www.mjnewsonline.com/board/printt…
The video here clearly shows the disease progressing through His Majesty's body
http://www.michaeljackson.magnify.net/it…
His Majesty is proud to be Black, see here
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Jac… in the Physical appearance section..
So how many nut cases still believe His Majesty is white on His will?OK. Now.. How many of you ill-informed nut cases still believe that Michael Jackson became white on his will?
A lot of dumb people....
They will never change......OK. Now.. How many of you ill-informed nut cases still believe that Michael Jackson became white on his will?
Vitiligo is a real disease, it is something that runs in my family (Thank God not Me)
Vitiligo rarely and goes beyond blotches or patches around body cavities, (example) eyes,nose, mouth, ears and privates. It is often seen in the extremities as well fingers and toes. If Michael Jackson has vitiligo he is the first confirmed case of it transforming his entire body.
There is a cream that can be purchased over the counter or bought at prescription strength. It is called Hydorquinine cream. When used consistently it can and will fade skin pigment. Which is what MJ is guilty of.
Hydroquinine is the main ingredient found in products like Ambi.
As far as the nose thing... come on... he fell and broke his nose six or seven times. I work in surgery. Just because one falls and breaks their nose does not mean it has to be repaired straighter and more slender than it was.
There are still so many gullible people that actually believe that MJ bleached his skin, which is totally ridiculous, I however have done the research and seen the proof that he has Vitiligo!
♥♥We Love You Michael!!!!♥♥
whats wrong with his nose then?
I do believe you're the NUT CASE!!!
Me.
But you prove a good point.
and somebody never kills me
You have the nicest way with words, it almost makes me want to answer .
Only the nose knows.
Not me I found out 9 years ago.
hey Staymay - If you looked at the images that sai posted, it has not encompased his entire body. You must remember that Michael is a mega superstar, he has the money and resources to pay for a very good makeup artist to cover up the blotchy patches. While you say it is in blotchy patches it has been shown that the patches become more abundant as the disease progresses hench the change from dark makeup to light makeup.
SO.. basically you just have proven to us that you along with many other people form an opinion on Michael without even looking into the facts that offered right in front of your nose!
♥We Love You MJ♥
laughing my butt off. people are so gullible. he has a skin disease ive seen it on him he had no choice to color his skin white. he did want to stay black. he had no choice. what does it matter if he did change the color . i dont think it does matter he is still the same person.
♥♥♥I BELIEVE IN YOU MICHAEL YOUR INNOCENT♥♥♥
I don't believe that he is white on his will.Michael has a disease and I don't care what ppl say!
let me be the first to say....WHO CARES?!?
Newsflash: MJ didn't become white despite the change in skin color. His phenotype may have been altered but his genotype is the same.
The disease runs through the Jackson family see here for a pic of LaToya Jackson whose skin isn't much different form His Majesty's. http://www.mjnewsonline.com/board/printt…
The video here clearly shows the disease progressing through His Majesty's body
http://www.michaeljackson.magnify.net/it…
His Majesty is proud to be Black, see here
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Jac… in the Physical appearance section..
So how many nut cases still believe His Majesty is white on His will?OK. Now.. How many of you ill-informed nut cases still believe that Michael Jackson became white on his will?
A lot of dumb people....
They will never change......OK. Now.. How many of you ill-informed nut cases still believe that Michael Jackson became white on his will?
Vitiligo is a real disease, it is something that runs in my family (Thank God not Me)
Vitiligo rarely and goes beyond blotches or patches around body cavities, (example) eyes,nose, mouth, ears and privates. It is often seen in the extremities as well fingers and toes. If Michael Jackson has vitiligo he is the first confirmed case of it transforming his entire body.
There is a cream that can be purchased over the counter or bought at prescription strength. It is called Hydorquinine cream. When used consistently it can and will fade skin pigment. Which is what MJ is guilty of.
Hydroquinine is the main ingredient found in products like Ambi.
As far as the nose thing... come on... he fell and broke his nose six or seven times. I work in surgery. Just because one falls and breaks their nose does not mean it has to be repaired straighter and more slender than it was.
There are still so many gullible people that actually believe that MJ bleached his skin, which is totally ridiculous, I however have done the research and seen the proof that he has Vitiligo!
♥♥We Love You Michael!!!!♥♥
whats wrong with his nose then?
I do believe you're the NUT CASE!!!
Me.
But you prove a good point.
and somebody never kills me
You have the nicest way with words, it almost makes me want to answer .
Only the nose knows.
Not me I found out 9 years ago.
hey Staymay - If you looked at the images that sai posted, it has not encompased his entire body. You must remember that Michael is a mega superstar, he has the money and resources to pay for a very good makeup artist to cover up the blotchy patches. While you say it is in blotchy patches it has been shown that the patches become more abundant as the disease progresses hench the change from dark makeup to light makeup.
SO.. basically you just have proven to us that you along with many other people form an opinion on Michael without even looking into the facts that offered right in front of your nose!
♥We Love You MJ♥
laughing my butt off. people are so gullible. he has a skin disease ive seen it on him he had no choice to color his skin white. he did want to stay black. he had no choice. what does it matter if he did change the color . i dont think it does matter he is still the same person.
♥♥♥I BELIEVE IN YOU MICHAEL YOUR INNOCENT♥♥♥
I don't believe that he is white on his will.Michael has a disease and I don't care what ppl say!
let me be the first to say....WHO CARES?!?
Newsflash: MJ didn't become white despite the change in skin color. His phenotype may have been altered but his genotype is the same.
Will all the RedsStaters on YA politics please accept my humble apology for thinking ill of President Bush ???
As a compashionate Liberal I feel so bad that I mistook Bush's actions and deeds for ineptitude.
As a Combat Veteran I thought it was poor leadership.
But now that I know that President Bush is Handicapped or ';chalenged'; I feel completely asshamed that I was so harsh on someone that has over come so much.Will all the RedsStaters on YA politics please accept my humble apology for thinking ill of President Bush ???
Okay.
I have issues with him, too. Leadership happens to be one of themWill all the RedsStaters on YA politics please accept my humble apology for thinking ill of President Bush ???
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Your spelling is so poor that I would guess that you joined the military as a highschool dropout.
A REAL Marine would not speak so ill of the Commander in Chief
Sure, I will accept your apology. It could have been a little less cynical though.
Teddy K. was never able to overcome his alcohol and cocaine abuse to become Prez, so I guess we should admire GWB for overcoming his...
As a Combat Veteran I thought it was poor leadership.
But now that I know that President Bush is Handicapped or ';chalenged'; I feel completely asshamed that I was so harsh on someone that has over come so much.Will all the RedsStaters on YA politics please accept my humble apology for thinking ill of President Bush ???
Okay.
I have issues with him, too. Leadership happens to be one of themWill all the RedsStaters on YA politics please accept my humble apology for thinking ill of President Bush ???
LOL
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Your spelling is so poor that I would guess that you joined the military as a highschool dropout.
A REAL Marine would not speak so ill of the Commander in Chief
Sure, I will accept your apology. It could have been a little less cynical though.
Teddy K. was never able to overcome his alcohol and cocaine abuse to become Prez, so I guess we should admire GWB for overcoming his...
Ok i worked for 7 years got fired ill say because i have seziures after 3 years i fanlly got ssi will it pay
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It should
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Survey : If the doctor is ill, who would he/she go to see?
Another doctor if he can't treat himself! (almost like saying if a barber needs a haircut, he needs to go to another barber!)Survey : If the doctor is ill, who would he/she go to see?
Another doctor! I worked for a multi-practice Medical Office and that's how I could tell who the exceptional doctors were - whenever I did a doctors bill and saw the other doctor which they used I knew he must be good! :) First hand experience in medical billing - doctors see other doctors and they generally pick the best in the practice to see! :)
By law doctor's can not prescribe medication for themselves nor can they order their own laboratory test, therefore they need a colleague to do that for them.Survey : If the doctor is ill, who would he/she go to see?
another doctor
if doctor's are sick they are lucky cuz they know who is good and who to go to
they can also probably get an appointment quick as they are all colleagues
Another doctor.
Doctors self-diagnosing themselves is discouraged because they can't be objective with themselves.
The doctor doctor!!!!!
They usually self-diagnose and self-prescribe.
Actually, they probably take massive amounts of non-FDA approved supplements so rarely get sick.
They'd probably self-diagnose and get a second opinion from another doctor.
Probably have sample prescriptions for most common things and would self diagnose.
Another doctor
Another doctor, duh.
he/she can see another doctor or can cure himself depending on the problem.
If a doctor gets sick, he/she goes to see another doctor(a full circle that is)
The patient would still see a doctor, but not THAT doctor. They cant turn you away like that...
Another doctor or with common sense he would no what is wrong with himself.
the doctor in the next room
he wouldn't have to go anywhere because he is a doctor and would know what was wrong with himself
A Doctor
he or she could look in the mirror and tell themselves what hurts then tell themselves what to do about it...ta da !!!!!!!!!no bill!!!
They self diagnose.
They'd stand in front of the mirror :P
The Wizard of Oz
many would ask this question. i guess they'll go to a doctor!!
=]
they dont... they diagnose themself and prescribe their own meds
the nurse
Ask someone on Yahoo Answers......I have seen a lot of question from people. I was surprised, what they were asking us. They must thing we are pretty smart
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Another doctor! I worked for a multi-practice Medical Office and that's how I could tell who the exceptional doctors were - whenever I did a doctors bill and saw the other doctor which they used I knew he must be good! :) First hand experience in medical billing - doctors see other doctors and they generally pick the best in the practice to see! :)
By law doctor's can not prescribe medication for themselves nor can they order their own laboratory test, therefore they need a colleague to do that for them.Survey : If the doctor is ill, who would he/she go to see?
another doctor
if doctor's are sick they are lucky cuz they know who is good and who to go to
they can also probably get an appointment quick as they are all colleagues
Another doctor.
Doctors self-diagnosing themselves is discouraged because they can't be objective with themselves.
The doctor doctor!!!!!
They usually self-diagnose and self-prescribe.
Actually, they probably take massive amounts of non-FDA approved supplements so rarely get sick.
They'd probably self-diagnose and get a second opinion from another doctor.
Probably have sample prescriptions for most common things and would self diagnose.
Another doctor
Another doctor, duh.
he/she can see another doctor or can cure himself depending on the problem.
If a doctor gets sick, he/she goes to see another doctor(a full circle that is)
The patient would still see a doctor, but not THAT doctor. They cant turn you away like that...
Another doctor or with common sense he would no what is wrong with himself.
the doctor in the next room
he wouldn't have to go anywhere because he is a doctor and would know what was wrong with himself
A Doctor
he or she could look in the mirror and tell themselves what hurts then tell themselves what to do about it...ta da !!!!!!!!!no bill!!!
They self diagnose.
They'd stand in front of the mirror :P
The Wizard of Oz
many would ask this question. i guess they'll go to a doctor!!
=]
they dont... they diagnose themself and prescribe their own meds
the nurse
Ask someone on Yahoo Answers......I have seen a lot of question from people. I was surprised, what they were asking us. They must thing we are pretty smart
jesus
WebMD.com
me
me
How would you react if a mentally ill person snapped at you for trying to get them help?
What would you do or say if they started calling you degrading names and then hired a lawyer to file a harassment or whatever lawsuit they wanted to against you?How would you react if a mentally ill person snapped at you for trying to get them help?
Just back off.How would you react if a mentally ill person snapped at you for trying to get them help?
Why would you even tolerate that? And if they are mental how would they know to get a lawyer and file a lawsuit for harassment? That doesn't make sense to me.
They wouldn't have a reason to file suit. I would have left a long time ago. That's usually the best thing to do.
I would get a psych. evaluation ( they are pretty easy to pass AND FAIL !! ) basically , you want to fail it !! If you can get a doc to say you are more ******* up than she is ....then you can legally flip out on her and get away with it ;)
no offence but you shouldnt have been pressureing them enough to piss them off that much
Call the psychiatric evaluation team to snatch them up and put them on a 72 hour hold.
Just back off.How would you react if a mentally ill person snapped at you for trying to get them help?
Why would you even tolerate that? And if they are mental how would they know to get a lawyer and file a lawsuit for harassment? That doesn't make sense to me.
They wouldn't have a reason to file suit. I would have left a long time ago. That's usually the best thing to do.
I would get a psych. evaluation ( they are pretty easy to pass AND FAIL !! ) basically , you want to fail it !! If you can get a doc to say you are more ******* up than she is ....then you can legally flip out on her and get away with it ;)
no offence but you shouldnt have been pressureing them enough to piss them off that much
Call the psychiatric evaluation team to snatch them up and put them on a 72 hour hold.
Poll: Would you rather be violently ill for a month straight, or speak in front of a crowd for 30 minutes?
i would rather be violently ill for a month straight, i refuse to public speak unless i know almost everyone that im talking toPoll: Would you rather be violently ill for a month straight, or speak in front of a crowd for 30 minutes?
The former.Poll: Would you rather be violently ill for a month straight, or speak in front of a crowd for 30 minutes?
I would prefer speak in front of a crowd for 30 mins. It maybe be painful, but when it comes down to it, after you have started talking for a couple mins all hat fear goes away.
I hate being ill.
`speak in front of a crowd for 30 minutes
I'd rather speak in front of a crowd for 30 minutes :)
speak in front of a crowd for 30 minutes..
speak in front of a crowd for 30mins. easy
speak in front of a crowd for 30 mins...
speak in a crowd for 30 min
speak in front of a crowd for 30 minutes i love talking to people it would no problem for me at all ever being sick no well then who would take care of my children :)las08------
Speak in front of a crowd for 30 minutes...
The former.Poll: Would you rather be violently ill for a month straight, or speak in front of a crowd for 30 minutes?
I would prefer speak in front of a crowd for 30 mins. It maybe be painful, but when it comes down to it, after you have started talking for a couple mins all hat fear goes away.
I hate being ill.
`speak in front of a crowd for 30 minutes
I'd rather speak in front of a crowd for 30 minutes :)
speak in front of a crowd for 30 minutes..
speak in front of a crowd for 30mins. easy
speak in front of a crowd for 30 mins...
speak in a crowd for 30 min
speak in front of a crowd for 30 minutes i love talking to people it would no problem for me at all ever being sick no well then who would take care of my children :)las08------
Speak in front of a crowd for 30 minutes...
Christians, if you were born mentally-ill how would you be able to accept Jesus?
Not to say that ya' X'ians ain't, if ya' know what I mean.
Brought to ya' by Wild_Tiger Rrrrrr...Christians, if you were born mentally-ill how would you be able to accept Jesus?
Jesus made them that way and loves them so much because they dont do a lot of sins.Christians, if you were born mentally-ill how would you be able to accept Jesus?
Don't have to accept Him because He realizes you have no control over your thoughts and actions.
God loves the mentally impaired and since Jesus is the one who made them and loves them they would come to heaven directly as do little children who cannot chose evil.
Easy! :) Most mentally ill or retarded people can accept Jesus much eaiser than those of average or superior intelligence! :) The more intelligence you have, the less likely you are to accept Jesus. Most genuises are athiests!
~Cindy! :)
I think mental illness is a prerequisite for accepting jesus.
Transformians under Optimus Prime would accept any defective human. Our technology coupled with any human could create a fully functional cyborg to combat Megatron.
theyre usually very willing
BE PREPARED FOR HELL YOU NUTS. THEY SAID YOU HAVE TO KNOW YOUR SAVIOUR TO BE SAVED.
Better to have love in one's life than nothing. Nothing is very lonely and lost.
Aethists and gays are mentally ill. Christians exist to help all those born mentally ill.
Brought to ya' by Wild_Tiger Rrrrrr...Christians, if you were born mentally-ill how would you be able to accept Jesus?
Jesus made them that way and loves them so much because they dont do a lot of sins.Christians, if you were born mentally-ill how would you be able to accept Jesus?
Don't have to accept Him because He realizes you have no control over your thoughts and actions.
God loves the mentally impaired and since Jesus is the one who made them and loves them they would come to heaven directly as do little children who cannot chose evil.
Easy! :) Most mentally ill or retarded people can accept Jesus much eaiser than those of average or superior intelligence! :) The more intelligence you have, the less likely you are to accept Jesus. Most genuises are athiests!
~Cindy! :)
I think mental illness is a prerequisite for accepting jesus.
Transformians under Optimus Prime would accept any defective human. Our technology coupled with any human could create a fully functional cyborg to combat Megatron.
theyre usually very willing
BE PREPARED FOR HELL YOU NUTS. THEY SAID YOU HAVE TO KNOW YOUR SAVIOUR TO BE SAVED.
Better to have love in one's life than nothing. Nothing is very lonely and lost.
Aethists and gays are mentally ill. Christians exist to help all those born mentally ill.
What would a doctor ask a patient who is mentally ill? (i'm writing a movie)?
the patient is scared of dying. He has become so scared of dying that his body puts images of people trying to kill him in his brain. he thinks that everywhere he goes somehow he is going to die. If somebody attacks him people around him just think he's being wierd cause all they see is him running away and screaming and stuff. One of his friends take him to a doctor. The doctor asks himm a series of questions and eventually the guy tells the doctor that he is scared of dying. I can't think of any questions a doctor would ask him and then the guy will tell him that he is scared of dying.What would a doctor ask a patient who is mentally ill? (i'm writing a movie)?
What your describing is classic Post Traumatic Stress Disorder(PTSD).I'm a vet ,I had it.
Physiologist and Psychiatrist ask very different questions.
Physiologist ask questions related to the mind and feelings.
Psychiatrist are medical doctors who are searching for a physical symptom.
The question most would usually ask me was ';do you often loose things';
Fear of death is very normal in these circles and never trips the doctors attention.They generally look for details where a person fixates on one thing for a very long time.
of course they both love to follow the easy route of the Freudian system and ask multiple questions about your parents.I screwed them up,cause I was an orphan.What would a doctor ask a patient who is mentally ill? (i'm writing a movie)?
Have you recently felt any uncontrollable emotions?
Have you lashed out on individuals to whom you are normally ';cool'; with?
Have you felt overly sad/depressed?
the doctor asks, ';are you afraid of dying?';pimple
What your describing is classic Post Traumatic Stress Disorder(PTSD).I'm a vet ,I had it.
Physiologist and Psychiatrist ask very different questions.
Physiologist ask questions related to the mind and feelings.
Psychiatrist are medical doctors who are searching for a physical symptom.
The question most would usually ask me was ';do you often loose things';
Fear of death is very normal in these circles and never trips the doctors attention.They generally look for details where a person fixates on one thing for a very long time.
of course they both love to follow the easy route of the Freudian system and ask multiple questions about your parents.I screwed them up,cause I was an orphan.What would a doctor ask a patient who is mentally ill? (i'm writing a movie)?
Have you recently felt any uncontrollable emotions?
Have you lashed out on individuals to whom you are normally ';cool'; with?
Have you felt overly sad/depressed?
the doctor asks, ';are you afraid of dying?';
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Im 13 and need money.I would love to work with horses if possible, but Ill do anything. What should I do?
As you know, a lot of people like to work with horses so a lot of stables get free help. Also some may feel that you're too young to hire to even clean out stalls. But maybe something specialized like mane braiding? People will pay a lot for it, if you don't mind getting up early to do so before a show. You'll need to get some experience in diffent type of braids (volunteer with local owners?) and pick up a few supplies at the store. Or if you're good at riding maybe as an instructor (although people may feel you're too young for that but maybe in a few years)
I've sort of assumed since you like working with horses that you've done so before but if you haven't you may want to consider other ways to make money. Since you probably don't have a job permit yet (it's age 14 in my area) you may have to work odd jobs like babysitting, yard work, cleaning, delivering papers, etc. Your school may have some job postings. And ask your parents friends (not strangers!) if they have any odd jobs that they can pay you for. Good luck!Im 13 and need money.I would love to work with horses if possible, but Ill do anything. What should I do?
If you're specifically looking to work with horses you need to talk to someone at a riding range or maybe a farmer.
But if you want to look for jobs just to make some money, then tell your neighbors you're looking for a job and would be willing to help them out with odd jobs like babysitting, dog-walking, pet-sitting, car wash, raking leaves, shoveling snow, etc.
Im 13 and need money.I would love to work with horses if possible, but Ill do anything. What should I do?
Research! If you love horses, that is a good place to start. Any stables that may need cleaners in your area?
Paper routes are another option
Ask your neighbours if they need any cleaning, lawn mowing, dog walking, painting done, etc.
You could make out a flyer advertising your ability to do odd jobs. Ensure that a parent or responsible adult is involved as a safety precaution to protect you from weirdo's. Ask your neighbours to hand out the flyers to any of their friends that may need casual labour.
Again, make sure that an adult is helping with this!
Good luck! I have found that kids that show personal creativity in their job searches, usually get hired.
The local stable may let you ride horses in exchange for cleaning them out and helping to groom them.
You will find out if you ask.
i am 13 too!
i do
penny savers
baby cut grass
shavle
rack leaves
lemonade stand
walk dogs
do chores around the house
i am running out of ideas hoped i helpt!
Anything?
hmmm... try pickpocketing a jockey?
paper route
I've sort of assumed since you like working with horses that you've done so before but if you haven't you may want to consider other ways to make money. Since you probably don't have a job permit yet (it's age 14 in my area) you may have to work odd jobs like babysitting, yard work, cleaning, delivering papers, etc. Your school may have some job postings. And ask your parents friends (not strangers!) if they have any odd jobs that they can pay you for. Good luck!Im 13 and need money.I would love to work with horses if possible, but Ill do anything. What should I do?
If you're specifically looking to work with horses you need to talk to someone at a riding range or maybe a farmer.
But if you want to look for jobs just to make some money, then tell your neighbors you're looking for a job and would be willing to help them out with odd jobs like babysitting, dog-walking, pet-sitting, car wash, raking leaves, shoveling snow, etc.
Im 13 and need money.I would love to work with horses if possible, but Ill do anything. What should I do?
Research! If you love horses, that is a good place to start. Any stables that may need cleaners in your area?
Paper routes are another option
Ask your neighbours if they need any cleaning, lawn mowing, dog walking, painting done, etc.
You could make out a flyer advertising your ability to do odd jobs. Ensure that a parent or responsible adult is involved as a safety precaution to protect you from weirdo's. Ask your neighbours to hand out the flyers to any of their friends that may need casual labour.
Again, make sure that an adult is helping with this!
Good luck! I have found that kids that show personal creativity in their job searches, usually get hired.
The local stable may let you ride horses in exchange for cleaning them out and helping to groom them.
You will find out if you ask.
i am 13 too!
i do
penny savers
baby cut grass
shavle
rack leaves
lemonade stand
walk dogs
do chores around the house
i am running out of ideas hoped i helpt!
Anything?
hmmm... try pickpocketing a jockey?
paper route
If you were ill, what would like to do one more time?
listen music...................If you were ill, what would like to do one more time?
Maybe I'd want to do something I'd never gotten to do, like go to the beach by the ocean. If I were limited to doing only things I'd done before, I'd choose to read a long book to my kids.If you were ill, what would like to do one more time?
what do you mean ill?? like youre going to die soon?
i just want to spend my last days on earth being with my love ones...
my first ex bf. he was awesome!!!
Maybe I'd want to do something I'd never gotten to do, like go to the beach by the ocean. If I were limited to doing only things I'd done before, I'd choose to read a long book to my kids.If you were ill, what would like to do one more time?
what do you mean ill?? like youre going to die soon?
i just want to spend my last days on earth being with my love ones...
my first ex bf. he was awesome!!!
If you wanted to take your life because you were ill or any other reason, how would you do it?
Knowledgeable, relevant answers only, from those who would want to take their lifeIf you wanted to take your life because you were ill or any other reason, how would you do it?
Sad question.If you wanted to take your life because you were ill or any other reason, how would you do it?
I'd have to be not only really ill, but alone, to do that. I wouldn't take my life if my wife was still alive, because she would be there to help me fight the illness (or whatever), also I wouldn't want to cause her the upset of my suicide. I would probably choose a painless method, tablets or something like that. I wouldn't choose any method that's painful, and especially not standing in front of a train. I heard a radio programme about how the police have to deal with that sort of death, and it's not nice. There is another aspect to suicide, and that's the effect that it has on those who are left behind. It might be the easy way out for the person who does it, but it causes a lot of heartbreak, if not just plain old hassle, for those who have to deal with the aftermath. I do feel that suicide is rather a selfish act, because of that.
I don't believe I'd ever want to take my life. It's too final. There's no returning, if you change your mind, if
you take something to kill yourself. If you attempt something, and then change your mind, what a panic to
live, you'd be involved with. I'd want to live to see another day, in the hope of things being better.
However if pain and physical torment, seeks you to end your life, the state of Oregon, has a 'right to die'
law that enables you to have assistance in dying. I'm not sure what all is involved. But it's legal.
If you wait until the New World Order comes into existance, they may have many options on the way to end your life. Especially if they feel you can no longer contribute to society, and they no longer want to pay your medical bills or help to keep you alive with meds or whatever is needed. And this is a serious comment, based on too many revelations I've read about what is in the planning stages of this world government to be housed in Copenhagen.
Well, with my expertise as an ex-drug addict, I'll have no problems whatsoever making myself a nice little mixture %26amp; inserting it into my vein. Unfortunately, I cannot divulge the exact nature of what I will use or how I will use it. To do so, might encourage someone else to try it %26amp; if they fail, they'll end up a human vegetable. I don't want that on my conscience.
If my eyesight has failed by the time I wish to do this act, then I could end up having to search out another drug addict to assist me, at a high price. I'm too broke to do that....so, if my sight fails, I'll need a B Plan. I never thought about that until today.
Thanks for a great question!
I need to come up with a B Plan.
Sheesh, have a star!
I have never thought of taking my life and I hope when the time comes I will not suffer but if I do and there is no hope of recovery I do have a plan in mind. I am not afraid of dying and would not feel guilty if I decided to take my life. I do hope it never comes to this. Poppy
As a matter of fact I have almost been close to death three times although heaven was a happy place. looking and seeing all my loved ones hysterical with the I should haves. I am forever grateful that I was given my life back. I don't know GOD's reasoning but life is great!
True story, when I was sick a few weeks ago I knew I was dying, I havent been very happy because of being alienated from my kids, there has been a lot of unbearable heartbreak for me, and often I have thot I would be better off dead, no more pain, no more heartbreak -- its been so long, nothing is ever going to change now so why keep hoping ?
I thot I can just lie down and die right now, because I know if I go to sleep I wont wake up and I dont have the energy to go to the hospital anyhow. I knew I was dying, my vision was blurry, I hadnt kept down water or food for 9 days, I looked like a skeleton --
Then I thot but there is still a small chance I may see my grandson again, people change - so I decided I should get a cab and go to the hospital
And just as I got to the hospital my son texted me on my cell phone, I hadnt heard from him in 15 months !! I believe, in fact I know God had a hand in this -- if I had just gone to sleep I would never have known he contacted me, never gotten the message from him !
so never give up hope that things can and will change for the better. Give it to God.
He has been texting me ever since . It was the best message I have ever received, God is good. You just have to have patience
The Dr said I had no potassium in my body and was an hour or so away from a major heart attack and my white cell count was through the roof, samonella poisoning but that little bit of hope motivated me to keep fighting and look what happened ! My son is back in contact with me !
To do such a thing only hurts the survivors. I know just 3 weeks ago a grandson hung himself and was only 26. He always said that was what he would do some day as that is what his dad did,.It is such a shame!
Without pain. Most women take pills but most men shoot themselves. The problem is with the people that you leave behind, Think about how they will feel and usually they always want to blame themselves for not finding a way to stop you.
Talk to you personal doctor. The only way I would end my life would due to pain and suffering, why prolong what is to be anyway. An accidental over dose.
Thought about, laughed about it and forgot about it!!! ';Kauf it up'; I admire your truthfulness and naturally the TD didn't ';get it';!!!!
Painlessly and without killing anyone else in the effort.
Visit a euthanasia clinic in Europe.
I wouldn't. I don't give advice to anyone, but if I did I'd strongly suggest against it.
A lead pill, but I would do it outside so no one would have a mess to clean in the house.
I would let time take it's toll, anything else is not thinkable for me.
And what do you think will be there when you get there, something easier?
I would get my 38 revolver and put it to my head.
Just commit your life to Christ and tell him to take it if that's what he wants to do, or else give you a new life with freedom and blessings, and purpose.
He will answer your prayers if you repent, and ask him into your heart first. I'm serious. He can also heal you. Read this:
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?sea鈥?/a>
Isaiah 53:4-6 (New International Version)
4 Surely he took up our infirmities
and carried our sorrows,
yet we considered him stricken by God,
smitten by him, and afflicted.
5 But he was pierced for our transgressions,
he was crushed for our iniquities;
the punishment that brought us peace was upon him,
and by his wounds we are healed.
6 We all, like sheep, have gone astray,
each of us has turned to his own way;
and the LORD has laid on him
the iniquity of us all.
Jesus said, Behold I stand at the door and knock. If any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in and sup with him and he with me. Revelation 3:20
For as many as believed in Him, to them gave he power to become sons of God, even to them that believe on His name. John 1:12
If any man be in Christ, he is a new creation. Old things are passed away. Behold, all things are become new. II Corinthians 5:17
Do not call to mind the former things,
Or ponder things of the past.
Behold, I will do something new;
Now it will spring forth;
Will you not be aware of it?
I will even make a roadway in the wilderness,
Rivers in the desert.
Isaiah 43:18-19
Sad question.If you wanted to take your life because you were ill or any other reason, how would you do it?
I'd have to be not only really ill, but alone, to do that. I wouldn't take my life if my wife was still alive, because she would be there to help me fight the illness (or whatever), also I wouldn't want to cause her the upset of my suicide. I would probably choose a painless method, tablets or something like that. I wouldn't choose any method that's painful, and especially not standing in front of a train. I heard a radio programme about how the police have to deal with that sort of death, and it's not nice. There is another aspect to suicide, and that's the effect that it has on those who are left behind. It might be the easy way out for the person who does it, but it causes a lot of heartbreak, if not just plain old hassle, for those who have to deal with the aftermath. I do feel that suicide is rather a selfish act, because of that.
I don't believe I'd ever want to take my life. It's too final. There's no returning, if you change your mind, if
you take something to kill yourself. If you attempt something, and then change your mind, what a panic to
live, you'd be involved with. I'd want to live to see another day, in the hope of things being better.
However if pain and physical torment, seeks you to end your life, the state of Oregon, has a 'right to die'
law that enables you to have assistance in dying. I'm not sure what all is involved. But it's legal.
If you wait until the New World Order comes into existance, they may have many options on the way to end your life. Especially if they feel you can no longer contribute to society, and they no longer want to pay your medical bills or help to keep you alive with meds or whatever is needed. And this is a serious comment, based on too many revelations I've read about what is in the planning stages of this world government to be housed in Copenhagen.
Well, with my expertise as an ex-drug addict, I'll have no problems whatsoever making myself a nice little mixture %26amp; inserting it into my vein. Unfortunately, I cannot divulge the exact nature of what I will use or how I will use it. To do so, might encourage someone else to try it %26amp; if they fail, they'll end up a human vegetable. I don't want that on my conscience.
If my eyesight has failed by the time I wish to do this act, then I could end up having to search out another drug addict to assist me, at a high price. I'm too broke to do that....so, if my sight fails, I'll need a B Plan. I never thought about that until today.
Thanks for a great question!
I need to come up with a B Plan.
Sheesh, have a star!
I have never thought of taking my life and I hope when the time comes I will not suffer but if I do and there is no hope of recovery I do have a plan in mind. I am not afraid of dying and would not feel guilty if I decided to take my life. I do hope it never comes to this. Poppy
As a matter of fact I have almost been close to death three times although heaven was a happy place. looking and seeing all my loved ones hysterical with the I should haves. I am forever grateful that I was given my life back. I don't know GOD's reasoning but life is great!
True story, when I was sick a few weeks ago I knew I was dying, I havent been very happy because of being alienated from my kids, there has been a lot of unbearable heartbreak for me, and often I have thot I would be better off dead, no more pain, no more heartbreak -- its been so long, nothing is ever going to change now so why keep hoping ?
I thot I can just lie down and die right now, because I know if I go to sleep I wont wake up and I dont have the energy to go to the hospital anyhow. I knew I was dying, my vision was blurry, I hadnt kept down water or food for 9 days, I looked like a skeleton --
Then I thot but there is still a small chance I may see my grandson again, people change - so I decided I should get a cab and go to the hospital
And just as I got to the hospital my son texted me on my cell phone, I hadnt heard from him in 15 months !! I believe, in fact I know God had a hand in this -- if I had just gone to sleep I would never have known he contacted me, never gotten the message from him !
so never give up hope that things can and will change for the better. Give it to God.
He has been texting me ever since . It was the best message I have ever received, God is good. You just have to have patience
The Dr said I had no potassium in my body and was an hour or so away from a major heart attack and my white cell count was through the roof, samonella poisoning but that little bit of hope motivated me to keep fighting and look what happened ! My son is back in contact with me !
To do such a thing only hurts the survivors. I know just 3 weeks ago a grandson hung himself and was only 26. He always said that was what he would do some day as that is what his dad did,.It is such a shame!
Without pain. Most women take pills but most men shoot themselves. The problem is with the people that you leave behind, Think about how they will feel and usually they always want to blame themselves for not finding a way to stop you.
Talk to you personal doctor. The only way I would end my life would due to pain and suffering, why prolong what is to be anyway. An accidental over dose.
Thought about, laughed about it and forgot about it!!! ';Kauf it up'; I admire your truthfulness and naturally the TD didn't ';get it';!!!!
Painlessly and without killing anyone else in the effort.
Visit a euthanasia clinic in Europe.
I wouldn't. I don't give advice to anyone, but if I did I'd strongly suggest against it.
A lead pill, but I would do it outside so no one would have a mess to clean in the house.
I would let time take it's toll, anything else is not thinkable for me.
And what do you think will be there when you get there, something easier?
I would get my 38 revolver and put it to my head.
Just commit your life to Christ and tell him to take it if that's what he wants to do, or else give you a new life with freedom and blessings, and purpose.
He will answer your prayers if you repent, and ask him into your heart first. I'm serious. He can also heal you. Read this:
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?sea鈥?/a>
Isaiah 53:4-6 (New International Version)
4 Surely he took up our infirmities
and carried our sorrows,
yet we considered him stricken by God,
smitten by him, and afflicted.
5 But he was pierced for our transgressions,
he was crushed for our iniquities;
the punishment that brought us peace was upon him,
and by his wounds we are healed.
6 We all, like sheep, have gone astray,
each of us has turned to his own way;
and the LORD has laid on him
the iniquity of us all.
Jesus said, Behold I stand at the door and knock. If any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in and sup with him and he with me. Revelation 3:20
For as many as believed in Him, to them gave he power to become sons of God, even to them that believe on His name. John 1:12
If any man be in Christ, he is a new creation. Old things are passed away. Behold, all things are become new. II Corinthians 5:17
Do not call to mind the former things,
Or ponder things of the past.
Behold, I will do something new;
Now it will spring forth;
Will you not be aware of it?
I will even make a roadway in the wilderness,
Rivers in the desert.
Isaiah 43:18-19
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