What would u do if your spouse cheated on you, but he/she is mentally ill?

he/she was also drunk at the timeWhat would u do if your spouse cheated on you, but he/she is mentally ill?
I would definately leave as she has issues you canot fix.


You need to separate, and stay on your own until you have a full understanding....let her have an intervention of sorts....and see if she is capable of getting her life and priorities straightened.


You need to know this instead of spending the rest of your life wondering where she is, if she is drunk, and who she is sleeping with now!


She knows right from wrong....now let her prove it to you while you remain faithfull to her. If she refuses....she is refusing you and has broken the sacred vows of marriage....so its then all a big lie and there is no 'marriage'.What would u do if your spouse cheated on you, but he/she is mentally ill?
Drinking and mental illness do go hand-in-hand a lot of the time. I know, i have bipolar disorder and am a recovering alcoholic.





Even so, i can still THINK and REASON, and i know right from wrong. I have been impulsive in the past, but i have worked and worked to change my behaviors.





If my spouse were mentally ill and cheated on me, i would do the same thing that i'd do if they were normal -- probably lose trust and respect.





I hope things work out.
You shouldn't feel guilty because your spouse has issues you cannot fix. You have some options though, right? It's a strain on any relationship, but you can salvage it probably. I mean, there are tons of people married to depressed people and alcoholics, drug addicts, and much worse. The question is, if it never gets better, then are you still happy with your decision to stay? Because, YOU can never fix this.
it depends, not necessarily on what u vowed or what u believe n but on the fact do u really love this person? can u really b able 2 forgive this person 2 the point where u will b able 2 trust them. if so then good luck working things out, if not then u need 2 leave and move on and just no that u can say u were faithful and tried 2 make it work. u need 2 think long and hard about if u can trust this person and if u want 2 b n a relationship like this. plus how r u suppose 2 no and believe that it wont happen again w/the same excuse. i understand this person may have problems but does that still make it ok. if u let them get away w/it then they may continue doing this noing that ull accept it if they keep using this excuse.
that is their problem to deal with, not yours. dont make excuses for someone that hurt you. i believe in mental sickness, and the effects of drinking. alcohol is a depressant. but dont expect them to care for you if they cant even take care of themself.
You might believe in that, but obviously the other person doesn't.





As soon as they cheated they broke their vows.





I have enough trouble dealing with my own mental state let alone dealing with someone elses.





I'd be gone.
Get an annulment. You can if he has mental issues you werent aware of whne you married him..
What about the part of forsaking all others?

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